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THIS EDITION: find

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Quoted In The Grove:
I keep finding myself stifled by the company of others and then crippled by loneliness when I leave them. I am terrified and I don’t even know of what, because I have lost everything already.
~Veronica Roth

The world is like a reverse casino. In a casino, if you gamble long enough, you’re certainly going to lose. But in the real world, where the only thing you’re gambling is, say, your time or your embarrassment, then the more stuff you do, the more you give luck a chance to find you.
~Scott Adams

Creativity is piercing the mundane to find the marvelous.
~Bill Moyers

EndQuote:
You’ve got to find some way of saying it without saying it.
~Duke Ellington

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Next Exercise Prompt: close

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Thrift shopping is all about going into the thrift shop and having no expectation of what you might find.
~Macklemore

Flea markets are fun because they are the ultimate treasure hunt. Be open to the fact that you never know what you’ll find. The most beautiful, quirky, funny, scary pieces may not have an intrinsic value.
~Lara Spencer

You can find the entire cosmos lurking in its least remarkable objects.
~Wislawa Szymborska

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If we are to achieve a richer culture, rich in contrasting values, we must recognize the whole gamut of human potentialities, and so weave a less arbitrary social fabric, one in which each diverse human gift will find a fitting place.
~Margaret Mead

If you’re going to commit to that, you’re going to have to find some way to make it bearable and enjoyable.
~Ryan Reynolds

The only solutions that are ever worth anything are the solutions that people find themselves.
~Satyajit Ray

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Finding out the truth doesn’t always work out for the best!
~Axel

I think the next best thing to solving a problem is finding some humor in it.
~Frank A Clark

The more you find out about the world, the more opportunities there are to laugh at it.
~Bill Nye

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Life’s a game made for everyone and love is the prize.
So wake me up when it’s all over ‒ when I’m wiser and I’m older.
All this time I was finding myself and I didn’t know I was lost.
~Avicii

Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.
~George Bernard Shaw

Finding oneself was a misnomer; a self is not found but made.
~Jacques Barzun

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It’s not possible to experience constant euphoria, but if you’re grateful, you can find happiness in everything.
~Pharrell Williams

As an exercise in appreciation, try for one hour to feel grateful for every single thing you find yourself doing… For a full hour do not take even the smallest action for granted. Be aware of every detail of what you can do. Anyone who does this daily for even a short time will have a much greater appreciation for everything he does.
~Zelig Pliskin

The unthankful heart… discovers no mercies; but let the thankful heart sweep through the day and, as the magnet finds the iron, so it will find, in every hour, some heavenly blessings!
~Henry Ward Beecher

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I don’t find I’m manic at all. I’m very chill.
~Kirsten Dunst

Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power.
~Lao-Tzu

Somehow, we’ll find it. The balance between whom we wish to be and whom we need to be. But for now, we simply have to be satisfied with who we are.
~Brandon Sanderson

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In contradiction and paradox, you can find truth.
~Denis Villeneuve

Contradictions do not exist. Whenever you think you are facing a contradiction, check your premises. You will find that one of them is wrong.
~Ayn Rand

Knowledge can be communicated, but not wisdom. One can find it, live it, be fortified by it, do wonders through it, but one cannot communicate and teach it.
~Hermann Hesse

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You will find poetry nowhere unless you bring some of it with you.
~Joseph Joubert

The only Zen you can find on the tops of mountains is the Zen you bring up there.
~Robert M Pirsig

Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us or we find it not.
~Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Since social relationships are always ambiguous, since my thought is only a unit, since my thoughts create rifts as much as they unite, since my words establish contacts by being spoken and create isolation by remaining unspoken, since an immense moat separates the subjective certitude that I have for myself from the objective reality that I represent to others, since I never stop finding myself guilty even though I feel I am innocent…
~Ludwig Wittgenstein

You should examine yourself daily. If you find faults, you should correct them. When you find none, you should try even harder.
~author unknown

I must congratulate myself, in passing, for never having lost the ability to examine my conscience, never having lost the gift of finding myself wanting & defective. Why fear the criticism of others when you, yourself, are first out of the critical gate? If self-denigration is the race I am the winner, even before the starting gun. Collect the bets.
~Frank McCourt

I’ve never looked through a keyhole without finding someone was looking back.
~Judy Garland

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Modernism was born in part out of the need to find fresh ways of expression, to describe a new world that was unlike anything that had gone before.
~Margaret MacMillan

One of the things that’s interesting to me is I find things like caffeine and stunts actually relax me. When they’re putting a bit of gel on my arm and lighting me on fire, or when I’m about to go into a high-speed car chase or rev a motorcycle up pretty fast, I find everything else around me slows down.
~Nicolas Cage

Human beings must have action; and they will make it if they cannot find it.
~Albert Einstein

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One of the oddest things about being grown-up was looking back at something you thought you knew and finding out the truth of it was completely different from what you had always believed.
~Patricia Briggs

We are able to find everything in our memory, which is like a dispensary or chemical laboratory in which chance steers our hand sometimes to a soothing drug and sometimes to a dangerous poison.
~Marcel Proust

It is sadder to find the past again and find it inadequate to the present than it is to have it elude you and remain forever a harmonious conception of memory.
~F Scott Fitzgerald

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Wherever you are, be there totally. If you find your here and now intolerable and it makes you unhappy, you have three options: remove yourself from the situation, change it, or accept it totally. If you want to take responsibility for your life, you must choose one of those three options, and you must choose now. Then accept the consequences.
~Eckhart Tolle

Find joy in everything you choose to do. Every job, relationship, home… it’s your responsibility to love it, or change it.
~Chuck Palahniuk

It’s in responsibility that most people find the meaning that sustains them through life. It’s not in happiness. It’s not in impulsive pleasure.
~Jordan Peterson

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I find hope in the darkest of days, and focus in the brightest. I do not judge the universe.
~Dalai Lama

Find the good. It’s all around you. Find it, showcase it and you’ll start believing in it.
~Jesse Owens

Give light and people will find the way.
~Ella Baker

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Good people do not need laws to tell them to act responsibly, while bad people will find a way around the laws.
~Plato

It disturbs me no more to find men base, unjust, or selfish than to see apes mischievous, wolves savage, or the vulture ravenous.
~Jean-Paul Sartre

The better I get to know men, the more I find myself loving dogs.
~Charles de Gaulle

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In times of change learners inherit the earth; while the learned find themselves beautifully equipped to deal with a world that no longer exists.
~Eric Hoffer

You’ve got to invest in the world, you’ve got to read, you’ve got to go to art galleries, you’ve got to find out the names of plants. You’ve got to start to love the world and know about the whole genius of the human race. We’re amazing people.
~Vivienne Westwood

If you really think about it, if we begin to teach history exactly the way that it happened ‒ good, bad, ugly, no matter what ‒ I believe that we’re going to find that we are closer, more connected than we are apart.
~Ruby Bridges

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If we could read the secret history of our enemies we should find in each man’s life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility.
~Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

There is so much good in the worst of us, and so much bad in the best of us, that it ill behooves any of us to find fault with the rest of us.
~James Truslow Adams

If we knew each other’s secrets, what comforts we should find.
~John Churton Collins

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To be successful you have to be lucky, or a little mad, or very talented, or find yourself in a rapid growth field.
~Edward de Bono (Six Thinking Hats)

You got to go down a lot of wrong roads to find the right one.
~Bob Parsons (GoDaddy)

Wise men make more opportunities than they find.
~Francis Bacon (wise man)

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Most people never run far enough on their first wind to find out they’ve got a second.
~William James

Rarely do we find men who willingly engage in hard, solid thinking. There is an almost universal quest for easy answers and half-baked solutions. Nothing pains some people more than having to think.
~Martin Luther King, Jr.

Eagles don’t flock, you have to find them one at a time.
~Ross Perot

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Scratch a pessimist and you find often a defender of privilege.
~William Beveridge

We swallow greedily any lie that flatters us, but we sip only little by little at a truth we find bitter.
~Denis Diderot

You never find yourself until you face the truth.
~Pearl Bailey

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Each man’s life represents a road toward himself.
~Herman Hesse

To find yourself, think for yourself.
~Socrates

Committing yourself is a way of finding out who you are. A man finds his identity by identifying.
~Robert Terwilliger

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The greatness of art is not to find what is common but what is unique.
~Isaac Bashevis Singer

I find only freedom in the realms of eccentricity.
~David Bowie

You really have to look inside yourself and find your own inner strength, and say, ‘I’m proud of what I am and who I am, and I’m just going to be myself.’
~Mariah Carey

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If you are lucky enough to find a way of life you love, you have to find the courage to live it.
~John Irving

When you know what you want, and want it bad enough, you will find a way to get it.
~Jim Rohn

Older and wiser voices can help you find the right path, if you are only willing to listen.
~Jimmy Buffett

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People often say that this or that person has not yet found himself. But the self is not something one finds, it is something one creates.
~Thomas Szasz

If a man happens to find himself, he has a mansion which he can inhabit with dignity all the days of his life.
~James A Michener

Find out who you are and do it on purpose.
~Dolly Parton

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Posted From The Grove

Life has got a habit of not standing hitched. You got to ride it like you find it. You got to change with it. If a day goes by that don’t change some of your old notions for new ones, that is just about like trying to milk a dead cow.
~Woody Guthrie

Whoever marries the spirit of this age will find himself a widower in the next.
~William Inge

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Political debate is more interested in manipulating the truth, than finding the truth.
~George Soros

You can’t help people being right for the wrong reasons…This fear of finding oneself in bad company is not an expression of political purity; it is an expression of a lack of self-confidence.
~Arthur Koestler

I believe that one of the best ways of getting at truth is reflecting with others who have opposing views and who share your interest in finding the truth rather than being proven right
~Ray Dalio

I let the argument rip healthily between the departments. This is a very good way to finding out the truth.
~Winston Churchill

(A practice used to good effect by Abraham Lincoln. ~Ed Note)

The enemies cannot destroy the king who has at his service the respect and friendship of the wise men who can find fault, disagree, and correct him.
~Thiruvalluvar

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A wise ruler, when he makes his laws, is bound to find himself in conflict with the world.
~Han Fei

Leaders come in many forms, with many styles and diverse qualities. There are quiet leaders and leaders one can hear in the next county. Some find strength in eloquence, some in judgment, some in courage.
~John W Gardner

Find your place on the planet. Dig in, and take responsibility from there.
~Gary Snyder

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I’m finding myself really angry over spending and the deficit. I’m finding myself really angry over what’s happening in the Middle East, the decision to stay in Afghanistan indefinitely. I’m angry about cap and trade. And I’ve been on record for a long time on the failed war on drugs.
~Gary Johnson

Politics is the art of looking for trouble, finding it everywhere, diagnosing it incorrectly and applying the wrong remedies.
~Groucho Marx

Those who lack the courage will always find a philosophy to justify it.
~Albert Camus

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One of the saddest lessons of history is this: If we’ve been bamboozled long enough, we tend to reject any evidence of the bamboozle. We’re no longer interested in finding out the truth. The bamboozle has captured us. It’s simply too painful to acknowledge, even to ourselves, that we’ve been taken. Once you give a charlatan power over you, you almost never get it back.
~Carl Sagan

There is nothing to fear except the persistent refusal to find out the truth.
~Dorothy Thompson

Finding out the truth is only half of it. It’s what you do with it that matters.
~Tristan Wilds

Most people, in fact, will not take the trouble in finding out the truth, but are much more inclined to accept the first story they hear.
~Thucydides

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There’s nothing worse than finding yourself in a situation, a very demanding piece of work, and knowing that you’re not a true ally to the person who’s in charge of all that.
~Daniel Day-Lewis

He’s smart allright, and I find he’s a fresh of breath air, but we both know whose President and whose in charge.
~T Rumpledthinskin

Being a nocturnal creature myself, I often find myself in dark alleys or strange places late at night. If there were werewolves around, I’d be likely to run into them, being the night owl that I am.
~Dean Ambrose

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When things are bad, we take comfort in the thought that they could always get worse. And when they are, we find hope in the thought that things are so bad they have to get better.
~Malcolm Forbes

When you are behind bars with no hope of release, you need to find strength wherever you can. Personally, I found strength in Michael Jackson.
~Nelson Mandela

Resolve to be thyself: and know, that he who finds himself, loses his misery.
~Matthew Arnold

To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield.
~Alfred Lord Tennyson

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If the same punishment is prescribed for two crimes that injure society in different degrees, then men will face no stronger deterrent from committing the greater crime if they find it in their advantage to do so.
~Cesare Beccaria

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There’s nothing is this world more instinctively abhorrent to me than finding myself in agreement with my fellow-humans.
~Malcolm Muggeridge (journalist/satirist)

Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.
~Mark Twain

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane.
~Marcus Aurelius

My sensibility has never been political. The things I find funny are generally apolitical.
~Tim Dillon

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It is easier to find men who will volunteer to die, than to find those who are willing to endure pain with patience.
~Julius Caesar

Sometimes by losing a battle you find a new way to win the war.
~Donald Trump

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My mama always used to tell me: ‘If you can’t find somethin’ to live for, you best find somethin’ to die for.’
~Tupac Shakur

You must be bold, brave, and courageous and find a way… to get in the way.
~John Lewis

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History is not everything, but it is a starting point. History is a clock that people use to tell their political and cultural time of day. It is a compass they use to find themselves on the map of human geography. It tells them where they are but, more importantly, what they must be.
~John Henrik Clarke

If we open a quarrel between past and present, we shall find that we have lost the future.
~Winston Churchill

The future would end up finding out the truth about the past.
~Paulo Coelho

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Human nature is full of riddles; . . . one of those riddles is: how is it that people who have been crushed by the sheer weight of slavery and cast to the bottom of the pit can nevertheless find strength in themselves to rise up and free themselves first in spirit and then in body while those who soar unhampered over the peaks of freedom suddenly lose the taste of freedom, lose the will to defend it, and, hopelessly confused and lost, almost begin to crave slavery?’
~Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn

One who deceives will always find those who allow themselves to be deceived.
~Niccolo Machiavelli

Most people don’t care if you’re telling them the truth or if you’re telling them a lie, as long as they’re entertained by it. You find that out really fast.
~Tom Waits

Man, so long as he remains free, has no more constant and agonizing anxiety than find as quickly as possible someone to worship.
~Fyodor Dostoevsky

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Seek freedom and become captive of your desires. Seek discipline and find your liberty.
~Frank Herbert

I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do. I am free, no matter what rules surround me. If I find them tolerable, I tolerate them; if I find them too obnoxious, I break them. I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do.
~Robert A Heinlein

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We often find far more power in a symbol than in something that is an an actuality.
~Steven Berkoff

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But we have to pass the bill so you can find out what is in it, away from the fog of the controversy.
~Nancy Pelosi

Why a four-year-old child could understand this report. Run out and find me a four-year-old child. I can’t make head nor tail out of it.
~Groucho Marx

I think academics are infuriating. For every expert on Shakespeare there is another one to cancel his theory out. It drives you up the wall. I think the greatest form of finding out the truth is through fantasy.
~Joseph Fiennes

The most fundamental fact about the ideas of the political left is that they do not work. Therefore we should not be surprised to find the left concentrated in institutions where ideas do not have to work in order to survive.
~Thomas Sowell

I am politically incorrect, that’s true. Political correctness to me is just intellectual terrorism. I find that really scary, and I won’t be intimidated into changing my mind. Everyone isn’t going to love you all the time.
~Mel Gibson

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Am I a liberal or conservative? I’m neither. Like most Americans, I find politics very frustrating. Like most Americans, I’d like to hear from politicians the facts. That is what drives me.
~Soledad O’Brien

In any situation that we find in our lives, when there is something that we feel should be better, we must exert effort to try and make it better. So it’s the same socially, musically, politically in any department of our lives.
~John Coltrane

I believe that every single one of us, celebrity or not, has a responsibility to get involved in trying to make a difference in the world. Our generation faces many challenges, some of which were passed on to us by the past generations, but it’s up to us to find solutions today so that we don’t keep passing our problems on.
~Shakira

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Surround yourself with the best people you can find, delegate authority, and don’t interfere as long as the policy you’ve decided upon is being carried out.
~Ronald Reagan

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With all of the bad things that are happening in the world right now, I think we need a message of togetherness and true unity. I believe that starts with personal reflection and then we can find kindness toward each other.
~Marielle Heller

We can choose to wake up and grumble all day and be bitter and angry and judge others and find satisfaction in others doing bad instead of good. Or we can we wake up with optimism and love and say, ‘Just what is this beautiful day going to bring me?’
~Margaret Trudeau

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The art of war is simple enough. Find out where your enemy is. Get at him as soon as you can. Strike him as hard as you can, and keep moving on.
~Ulysses S Grant

Diplomacy is the art of saying ‘Nice doggie’ until you can find a rock.
~Will Rogers

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Migration is as natural as breathing, as eating, as sleeping. It is part of life, part of nature. So we have to find a way of establishing a proper kind of scenario for modern migration to exist. And when I say ‘we,’ I mean the world. We need to find ways of making that migration not forced.
~Gael Garcia Bernal

It’s about mass immigration at a time when 21% of young people can’t find work. It’s about giving £50 million a day to the EU when the public finances are under great strain.
~Nigel Farage

Never mind that Mount Sermon thing. You’ll find that’s for heaven, later. This is still the real world, and a cruel world still makes the rules, than God.
~St Rumpet

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Immigrant parents dream that their children will find a place in their new home, and they willingly suffer hardships in service to that dream. That was certainly true of my parents.
~Gene Luen Yang

When you get to know a lot of people, you make a great discovery. You find that no one group has a monopoly on looks, brains, goodness or anything else. It takes all the people ‒ black and white, Catholic, Jewish and Protestant, recent immigrants and Mayflower descendants ‒ to make up America.
~Judy Garland

I never forget. I never forgive. I can wait. I find it very easy to harbor a grudge. I have scores to settle.
~Tom Wolfe

Those who enjoy their own emotionally bad health and who habitually fill their own minds with the rank poisons of suspicion, jealousy and hatred, as a rule take umbrage at those who refuse to do likewise, and they find a perverted relief in trying to denigrate them.
~Johannes Brahms

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If you give me six lines written by the hand of the most honest of men, I will find something in them which will hang him.
~Cardinal Richelieu

Look and you will find it ‒ what is unsought will go undetected.
~Sophocles

Those who begin coercive elimination of dissent soon find themselves exterminating dissenters. Compulsory unification of opinion achieves only the unanimity of the graveyard.
~Robert Jackson

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If you abuse the public trust, we’re going to find you, and and we’re going to prosecute you.
~Josh Hawley

Psychopaths are social predators, and like all predators, they are looking for feeding grounds. Wherever you get power, prestige and money, you will find them.
~Robert D Hare

I find the idea of vigilante justice very attractive. I like the idea that the murderer decides that this person has gone too far, and nothing will happen to him unless she does something to stop him.
~Donna Leon (crime novelist)

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Find out just what any people will quietly submit to and you have the exact measure of the injustice and wrong which will be imposed on them.
~Frederick Douglass

People say that if you find water rising up to your ankle, that’s the time to do something about it, not when it’s around your neck.
~Chinua Achebe

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If we look to the history of other nations, ancient or modern, we find no example of a growth so rapid, so gigantic, of a people so prosperous and happy.
~James Monroe

He who threatens us will find us deaf to his threats. We are willing to listen only to rational arguments.
~Menachem Begin

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A man rising in the world is not concerned with history; he is too busy making it. But a citizen with a fixed place in the community wants to acquire a glorious past just as he acquires antique furniture. By that past he is reassured of his present importance; in it he finds strength to face the dangers that lie in front of him.
~Malcolm Cowley

Patience, the beggar’s virtue, shall find no harbor here.
~Philip Massinger

A man must fortify himself and understand that a wise man who yields to laziness or anger or passion or love of drink, or who commits any other action prompted by impulse and inopportune, will probably find his fault condoned; but if he stoops to greed, he will not be pardoned, but render himself odious as a combination of all vices at once.
~Apollonius of Tyana

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It is the right of government to protect the weak; it is the right of the weak to find in their courts fair treatment before the law.
~Robert Kennedy

You know people talk about federal money as if it falls from heaven. You know we thank heaven for it, but it came out of people’s pockets ‒ and I’ve driven all over Washington, D.C., I cannot find the money tree.
~John Kennedy

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I find capitalism repugnant. It is filthy, it is gross, it is alienating… because it causes war, hypocrisy and competition.
~Fidel Castro

I find that Americans completely lack sensibility and good taste. They are boring, and they all have faces like unbaked rolls.
~Frida Kahlo

My accent does slip. When I arrived in England in 1978 at 18, I was shocked to find myself ‘the American’ at RADA. The English and the Americans have an intense relationship. They helped us out in the Second World War.
~Mark Rylance

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Sow confusion to reap chaos, then find its remedy in the monarchy of martial law. You can smell the smoke from here, same as before, in ’76.
~author unknown

The monarchy is foremost a business, and it’s important to them that the British public continue to finance the excessive luxurious lifestyles of the now quite enormous, wasteful and useless ‘royal’ family. I find it very sad.
~Morrissey

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Democratic nations must try to find ways to starve the terrorist and the hijacker of the oxygen of publicity on which they depend.
~Margaret Thatcher

If we want to preserve the foundation of our democracy, it’s vital that we find common ground that allows us to work for the greater good of this nation. This does not mean giving up our values. This does not mean swallowing a bitter compromise.
~Tulsi Gabbard

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I like to see myself as a bridge builder, that is me building bridges between people, between races, between cultures, between politics, trying to find common ground.
~T D Jakes

Patriotism is love of country. But you can’t love your country without loving your countrymen and countrywomen. We don’t always have to agree, but we must empower each other, we must find the common ground, we must build bridges across our differences to pursue the common good.
~Cory Booker

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~Duckpix: Barn Find (0:51) the colors, the setting and sounds, it all comes together in 51 seconds

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~Tayseer Alhamanad: Find Nishan (5:58) too real to be a travel video, but wonderful

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~Allesandro Grespan: Find Yours (1:23) a variety of talents on quick display

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~Leanne’s Art Lab: if you’re trying to find your art styleSTOP! (5:35) a meditation on art style while watching something take form

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The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want and if they can’t find them, make them.
~George Bernard Shaw

The first step toward success is taken when you refuse to be a captive of the environment in which you first find yourself.
~Mark Caine

Anybody who succeeds is helping people. The secret to success is find a need and fill it; find a hurt and heal it; find a problem and solve it.
~Robert H Schuller

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To succeed, you need to find something to hold on to, something to motivate you, something to inspire you.
~Tony Dorsett

I find that the harder I work, the more luck I seem to have.
~Thomas Jefferson

At Uber, we say, ‘Always be hustling.’ Even if you are an introvert and you haven’t got hustle in you, you better get a co-founder who does. And if you haven’t got enough hustle to find a co-founder who’s got hustle, it’s going to be tough. You’ve got to have a little hustle in you.
~Travis Kalanick

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When you are asked if you can do a job, tell ’em, ‘Certainly I can!’ Then get busy and find out how to do it.
~Theodore Roosevelt

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You will never find time for anything. If you want time you must make it.
~Charles Buxton

You have power over your mind ‒ not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.
~Marcus Aurelius

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Find like-minded people who are on the same page as you, and then lift each other up.
~Nahnatchka Khan

Make it a habit to tell people thank you. To express your appreciation, sincerely and without the expectation of anything in return. Truly appreciate those around you, and you’ll soon find many others around you. Truly appreciate life, and you’ll find that you have more of it.
~Ralph Marston

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I’m an ocean, because I’m really deep. If you search deep enough you can find rare exotic treasures.
~Christina Aguilera

Should you find yourself in a chronically leaking boat, energy devoted to changing vessels is likely to be more productive than energy devoted to patching leaks.
~Warren Buffett

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Wipe the tears away, stand up, be a man, run your business, find a way.
~Kevin Plank

No matter what problem you encounter, whether it’s a grand challenge for humanity or a personal problem of your own, there’s an idea out there that can overcome it. And you can find that idea.
~Ray Kurzweil

Don’t dwell on what went wrong. Instead, focus on what to do next.
Spend your energies on moving forward toward finding the answer.
~Denis Waitley

For every failure, there’s an alternative course of action. You just have to find it. When you come to a roadblock, take a detour.
~Mary Kay Ash

Find the confidence in whatever way you can to just keep moving onto the next page. The only way you will finish projects and get better is to keep moving forward.
~Charles Forsman

When you look at people who are successful, you will find that they aren’t the people who are motivated, but have consistency in their motivation.
~Arsene Wenger

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Should you find yourself in a chronically leaking boat, energy devoted to changing vessels is likely to be more productive than energy devoted to patching leaks.
~Warren Buffett

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If you want to be successful, find someone who has achieved the results you want and copy what they do and you’ll achieve the same results.
~Tony Robbins

While you’re going through this process of trying to find the satisfaction in your work, pretend you feel satisfied. Tell yourself you had a good day. Walk through the corridors with a smile rather than a scowl. Your positive energy will radiate. If you act like you’re having fun, you’ll find you are having fun.
~Jean Chatzky

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It’s just too much if you make your career everything. It is everything when you’re doing it. But you have to find things you love just as much.
~Sandra Bullock

People who cannot find time for recreation are obliged sooner or later to find time for illness.
~John Wanamaker

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There’s no path to success. Everyone constructs their own path. The important thing is to follow your heart. Find your niche, is my best advice.
~Karol G (Colombian singer, panel discussion)

I, myself, have tried following people around me, and I’ve got lost and ended up feeling emptiness rather than a sense of accomplishment. I’d like everyone to find their own role models within themselves.
~Jisoo (Blackpink)

The only thing I have learned is to find strength in yourself. No one can help you, no one can do anything for you, you have to do the work yourself.
~Marina Abramovic (Serbian conceptual artist)

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Before you start some work, always ask yourself three questions ‒ Why am I doing it, What the results might be and Will I be successful. Only when you think deeply and find satisfactory answers to these questions, go ahead.
~Chanakya

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Control your expenses better than your competition. This is where you can always find the competitive advantage.
~Sam Walton

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Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it.
~Steve Jobs

Find a job you like and you add five days to every week.
~H Jackson Brown, Jr

To find joy in work is to discover the fountain of youth.
~Pearl S Buck

Find something you’re passionate about and keep tremendously interested in it.
~Julia Child

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Finding oneself and one’s path is like waking up on a foggy day. Be patient, and presently the fog will clear and that which has always been there can be seen. The path is already there to follow.
~Rasheed Ogunlaru

The path from dreams to success does exist. May you have the vision to find it, the courage to get on to it, and the perseverance to follow it.
~Kalpana Chawla

You shall, I question not, find a way to the top if you diligently seek for it; for nature hath placed nothing so high that it is out of the reach of industry and valor.
~Alexander the Great

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I have yet to find the man, however exalted his station, who did not do better work and put forth greater effort under a spirit of approval than under a spirit of criticism.
~Charles Schwab

One thing about championship teams is that they’re resilient. No matter what is thrown at them, no matter how deep the hole, they find a way to bounce back and overcome adversity.
~Nick Saban (commentator)

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What other people may find in poetry or art museums, I find in the flight of a good drive.
~Arnold Palmer (PGA)

To find a man’s true character, play golf with him.
~P G Wodehouse

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It’s like everything in football ‒ and life. You need to look, you need to think, you need to move, you need to find space, you need to help others. It’s very simple in the end.
~Johan Cruyff

Some people try to find things in this game that don’t exist but football is only two things ‒ blocking and tackling.
~Vince Lombardi

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But each time I seemed to be climbing into a roller coaster and finding myself coming through the downhill run with that sort of dazed feeling that we all know.
~Enzo Ferrari (motorsports)

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So many people condemn me for risk taking, but I find it sort of hypocritical because everybody takes risks. Even the absence of activity could be viewed as a risk.
~Alex Honnold (rock climber)

Just find what works for you, what style suits you best, and just be confident enough to rock it.
~Odell Beckham, Jr (NFL)

Sleep is all about recovering. So if you’re not sleeping, you’re not recovering. And if you’re going to break your body down a lot, you better find ways to build it back up. And the only way to do that is get a lot of sleep. So for me, I go to bed at like 8:30, 9:00. As soon as I put my kids to bed. Because I’m up at 5:30 the next day.
~Tom Brady

It’s very important that we re-learn the art of resting and relaxing. Not only does it help prevent the onset of many illnesses that develop through chronic tension and worrying; it allows us to clear our minds, focus, and find creative solutions to problems.
~Thich Nhat Hanh

I have spent my whole life scared, frightened of things that could happen, might happen, might not happen, 50 years I spent like that. Finding myself awake at three in the morning. But you know what? Ever since my diagnosis, I sleep just fine.
~Walter White (Breaking Bad)

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We may find in the long run that tinned food is a deadlier weapon than the machine-gun.
~George Orwell

When I first found out I had HIV, I had to find somebody who was living with it, who could help me understand my journey and what I was going to have to deal with day-to-day. I found out that a person named Elizabeth Frazier was living with AIDS at the time, and so I called her up, and she took a meeting with me.
~Magic Johnson

I’d been convinced I was on the outside, but really, I’d always been within arm’s reach. All I had to do was ask, and I, too, would be easily brought back, surrounded and immersed, finding myself safe, somewhere in between.
~Sarah Dessen

Every single one of us will have our life interrupted, whether it’s by the ripcord of a diagnosis or some other kind of heartbreak or trauma that brings us to the floor. We need to find a way to live in the in-between place, managing whatever body and mind we currently have.
~Suleika Jaouad

Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it.
~Tori Amos

Finding happiness is like finding yourself. You don’t find happiness, you make happiness. You choose happiness. Self-actualization is a process of discovering who you are, who you want to be and paving the way to happiness by doing what brings you the most meaning and contentment to your life over the long run.
~David Leonhardt

It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere.
~Agnes Repplier

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I long for the countryside. That’s where I get my calm and tranquillity ‒ from being able to come and find a spot of green.
~Emilia Clarke

I don’t have to take a trip around the world or be on a yacht in the Mediterranean to have happiness. I can find it in the little things, like looking out into my backyard and seeing deer in the fields.
~Queen Latifah

I think it’s important to find the little things in everyday life that make you happy.
~Paula Cole

All my life, I have been a positive thinker… I have always been able to survive by telling myself that no matter how bad things are, they will one day be better. And that out of every event ‒ no matter how tragic ‒ one can always find a way to survive and even, perhaps, to be a little bit happy.
~Zsa Zsa Gabor

I am determined to be cheerful and happy in whatever situation I may find myself. For I have learned that the greater part of our misery or unhappiness is determined not by our circumstance but by our disposition.
~Martha Washington

A smile is happiness you’ll find right under your nose.
~Tom Wilson

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Find something that makes you happy and go for it.
~Zendaya

It is not in the pursuit of happiness that we find fulfillment, it is in the happiness of pursuit.
~Denis Waitley

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We always want more. Whether it is better clothes, a bigger house, faster cars, or the latest gadgets, satisfaction in these days of consumerism is difficult to find.
~Tulsi Tanti

When we recall the past, we usually find that it is the simplest things ‒ not the great occasions ‒ that in retrospect give off the greatest glow of happiness.
~Bob Hope

The secret of happiness is: Find something more important than you are and dedicate your life to it.
~Daniel Dennett

Ever since happiness heard your name, it has been running through the streets trying to find you.
~Hafez

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§ VIDEO:
There are definitely things about acting that have helped me growing up and finding myself, but there are also things that make it a bit more difficult. I guess I do allow myself to explore more when I know that, at the end of the day, if I really wanted to, I could just play a different person all day and be fine with that.
~Rowan Blanchard

Acting is all about finding the truth within whatever world you’re in.
~Karen Gillan

Acting is not about being someone different. It’s finding the similarity in what is apparently different, then finding myself in there.
~Meryl Streep

I do find that there’s a fine balance between preparation and seeing what happens naturally.
~Timothee Chalamet

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I’ve done almost 20 films and I still worry about not finding the next one.
~Joshua Leonard

My only problem is finding a way to play my fortieth fallen female in a different way from my thirty-ninth.
~Barbara Stanwyck

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My natural accent is American. I chose to speak with a U.K. accent when I was about to enter the final year at drama school in London. I was going to try to find a way to stay in the U.K. after I finished college and could not imagine trying to live and get work there with an American accent.
~Jennifer Ehle

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Do you believe in destiny? That even the powers of time can be altered for a single purpose? That the luckiest man who walks on this earth is the one who finds… true love?
~Bram Stoker

I wanted to play Dracula because I wanted to say: ‘I’ve crossed oceans of time to find you.’ It was worth playing the role just to say that line.
~Gary Oldman

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I enjoy flitting around between hair colours. I find it fascinating when people think I’m naturally blonde, as I’ve only been blonde for about two seconds. People pay more attention to you as a blonde; it’s also easier for people to assume you’re a ditsy young actress. Of course, I am a ditsy young actress ‒ well, maybe not ditsy.
~Holliday Grainger

Finding myself a nice and likeable character is a complete change.
~Nicholas Young

There’s no art to find the mind’s construction in the face.
~William Shakespeare

I didn’t have the problem of finding myself at 45 on the wrong course ‒ I always wanted to be a film director.
~Elia Kazan

To me, movies and music go hand in hand. When I’m writing a script, one of the first things I do is find the music I’m going to play for the opening sequence.
~Quentin Tarantino

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I love finding myself in the most bizarre situations, drinking cobra’s blood ‒ really diverse stories. And yet, I will still turn up on location sometimes and be surprised by what I’m encountering or by how to do something.
~Phil Keoghan (NZ tv)

It’s impossible to overvalue the importance of television ‒ both in its serious and less serious functions. It’s one of our most important ways of finding out the truth ‒ and also of changing the world, and finding out what in the world needs changing. It’s also an immense bringer of joy ‒ I learnt how to laugh through television, and now my children and I, every day of every week, share the joy and stupidity of TV shows ‒ they actually make us HAPPY
~Richard Curtis

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Usually I like playing other people. I like finding myself through other characters. But when you do cabaret, you are yourself. I think it’s the most fun, and I tell you, if somebody had told me that, I would have done it fifteen years earlier than I did.
~Faith Prince

People often say that ‘beauty is in the eye of the beholder,’ and I say that the most liberating thing about beauty is realizing that you are the beholder. This empowers us to find beauty in places where others have not dared to look, including inside ourselves.
~Salma Hayek

I would like to say to people, open your eyes and find beauty where you normally don’t expect it.
~Jean Paul Gaultier

I find beauty in imperfection.
~Rachel Morrison

I always find beauty in things that are odd and imperfect ‒ they are much more interesting.
~Marc Jacobs

This is the very perfection of a man, to find out his own imperfections.
~Saint Augustine

Celebrate the idea that you don’t fit in. Find your own fit. Stay unique.
~Betsey Johnson

You just have to find that thing that’s special about you that distinguishes you from all the others, and through true talent, hard work, and passion, anything can happen.
~Dr Dre

Find your passion, set a goal, go to work, evaluate, reassess, and repeat.
~Elana Meyers

If you’re being ignored, that’s a good time to concentrate on finding yourself and creating your own mystery.
~Lykke Li (Swedish musician/model)

Stick to the classics, and you can’t ever go wrong. I see old ladies on the street who have fabulous style and realize it’s because they are probably wearing really classic items that they’ve had for years and years. I think if you find something that suits you, you should just stick to it.
~Alexa Chung

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My fans love me; they’ve made me this sex symbol. I don’t feel I am, but they feel that way. They find me attractive, like I’m a sexy dude. I try my best to make them believe the illusion.
~Romeo Santos

Modeling really helps me find my confidence and break out of my shell.
~Jordyn Woods

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…a word is untimely in three different senses, and bearing it as one’s treasure will not win one anyone’s favours; one rather risks finding oneself outside everyone’s camp… Beauty is the word that shall be our first.
~Hans Urs von Balthasar

The beauty one can find in art is one of the pitifully few real and lasting products of human endeavor.
~J Paul Getty

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~Omeleto: Customer Service (12:07) finding ‘that’ song

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~Omeleto: The Bell Never Rings Again (15:06) litany of imagined dating possibilities, song and dance topping it off

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~Short of the Week: Lost & Found (7:38) worthy yarn to the end

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I couldn’t find the sports car of my dreams, so I built it myself.
~Ferdinand Porsche

Within our dreams and aspirations we find our opportunities.
~Sugar Ray Leonard

I chased my dreams. In the end, find what gets you excited and chase it.
~Guion Bluford (1st black into space)

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A dreamer is one who can only find his way by moonlight, and his punishment is that he sees the dawn before the rest of the world.
~Oscar Wilde

All men dream, but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds, wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act on their dreams with open eyes, to make them possible.
~T E Lawrence (…of Arabia)

Living in dreams of yesterday, we find ourselves still dreaming of impossible future conquests.
~Charles Lindbergh

The process of finding the truth may not be a process by which we feel increasingly better and better. It may be a process by which we look at things honestly, sincerely, truthfully, and that may or may not be an easy thing to do.
~Adyashanti

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To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering.
~Friedrich Nietzsche

I know that in life there will be sickness, devastation, disappointments, heartache ‒ it’s a given. What’s not a given is the way you choose to get through it all.
~Rashida Jones

I’m still coping with my trauma, but coping by trying to find different ways to heal it rather than hide it.
~Clemantine Wamariya

When we tackle obstacles, we find hidden reserves of courage and resilience we did not know we had. And it is only when we are faced with failure do we realise that these resources were always there within us. We only need to find them and move on with our lives.
~A P J Abdul Kalam

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It doesn’t matter what cards you’re dealt. It’s what you do with those cards. Never complain. Just keep pushing forward. Find a positive in anything and just fight for it.
~Baker Mayfield

It’s your outlook on life that counts. If you take yourself lightly and don’t take yourself too seriously, pretty soon you can find the humor in our everyday lives. And sometimes it can be a lifesaver.
~Betty White

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Me personally, I’m a guy who it took a long time to figure out what I’m supposed to be doing. I relate to a lot of that finding oneself a little later in the game, or being thrown a curve later in the game.
~Kurt Sutter

As I get older, I find that wearing bright colors cheers me up.
~Tadashi Shoji

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§ MUSIC:
It’s all about finding the right note at the right place and knowing when to leave well enough alone. And that’s a lifelong quest.
~David Sanborn

I would say that I’m finding my voice in more ways than one.
~Boz Scaggs

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…You can find people. It’s like those acrobatic displays…. Those ones when you stand on top of loads of people in a pyramid. It doesn’t really matter who they are, as long as they’re there and you don’t let them go away without finding someone else.
~Nick Hornby

Finding a good band is Iike finding a good wife. You got to keep trying till you find the right one.
~Ace Frehley (KISS)

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My first album was me finding myself and my voice, finding how I sing. I was rolling with the punches because everything was new to me.
~Chris Brown

I felt that with In A Perfect World I was still kind of finding myself ‒ not just as a musician, but also in love and in life.
~Keri Hilson

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Complete strangers can stand silent next to each other in an elevator and not even look each other in the eye. But at a concert, those same strangers could find themselves dancing and singing together like best friends. That’s the power of music.
~LZ Granderson

I think people who are creative are the luckiest people on earth. I know that there are no shortcuts, but you must keep your faith in something Greater than You, and keep doing what you love. Do what you love, and you will find the way to get it out to the world.
~Judy Collins

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Are you bored with life? Then throw yourself into some work you believe in with all your heart, live for it, die for it, and you will find happiness that you had thought could never be yours.
~Dale Carnegie

The person born with a talent they are meant to use will find their greatest happiness in using it.
~Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

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Sometimes you’ve got to let everything go ‒ purge yourself. If you are unhappy with anything… whatever is bringing you down, get rid of it. Because you’ll find that when you’re free, your true creativity, your true self comes out.
~Tina Turner

My favorite experiences have all been finding myself at one point in a timeline and going in both directions, just discovering at my own pace. If I could admit to be playing some kind of long game, and strategizing this, I would.
~Blake Mills (guitarist, multi-etc)

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The essential truth is that sometimes you’re worried that they’ll find out it’s a fluke, that you don’t really have it. You’ve lost the muse or ‒ the worst dread ‒ you never had it at all. I went through all that madness early on.
~Robin Williams

I do not seek. I find.
~Pablo Picasso

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We live in a fantasy world, a world of illusion. The great task in life is to find reality.
~Iris Murdoch

The most important thing about my profession is finding the truth, finding the reality of these shows.
~Shuler Hensley

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My lyrics aren’t offensive. Some people find everything offensive.
~Tyler, The Creator

I don’t listen to what art critics say. I don’t know anybody who needs a critic to find out what art is.
~Jean-Michel Basquiat

To find a form that accommodates the mess, that is the task of the artist now.
~Samuel Beckett

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As you navigate through the rest of your life, be open to collaboration. Other people and other people’s ideas are often better than your own. Find a group of people who challenge and inspire you, spend a lot of time with them, and it will change your life.
~Amy Poehler

Find like-minded people who are on the same page as you, and then lift each other up.
~Nahnatchka Khan

I find ambition really attractive too ‒ if someone’s good at something they love doing. I want someone who is driven.
~Harry Styles

When we find a purpose that is bigger than ourselves, we become more powerful in our ability to create.
~Jack Delosa

If you want to change the world, find someone to help you paddle.
~William H McRaven

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Inspiration is hard to come by. You have to take it where you find it.
~Bob Dylan

It is no small benefit on finding oneself in bed in the dark to go over again in the imagination the main lines of the forms previously studied, or other noteworthy things conceived by ingenious speculation.
~Leonardo da Vinci

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If you want something, work hard for it, go after it. I can’t worry about all the ‘no’s, because I believe there’s a yes, and I’ve been very fortunate to find those in my career and made the most of those opportunities.
~Mara Brock Akil

Do your homework. Find your voice. Be authentic. And then dive in with purpose.
~Julie Foudy

Believe in yourself, and find ways to express yourself, and find the discipline to keep growing.
~Michael Feinstein

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A man would do nothing if he waited until he could do it so well that no one could find fault.
~John Henry Newman

Color is my day-long obsession, joy and torment. To such an extent indeed that one day, finding myself at the deathbed of a woman who had been and still was very dear to me, I caught myself in the act of focusing on her temples and automatically analyzing the succession of appropriately graded colors which death was imposing on her motionless face.
~Claude Monet

Find beauty not only in the thing itself but in the pattern of the shadows, the light and dark which that thing provides.
~Junichiro Tanizaki

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In a time when everybody is talking about finding oneself, how do you find yourself? I wanted to do it as literally as possible. How do I prove that I’m concentrating on myself? I prove it by doing something physical. I can bite myself. I can burn the hair off my chest. The goal? Yes, I have a body. I have this thing that people call the self. Maybe I can change the self.
~Vito Acconci (performance artist)

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Life is not about finding yourself. It’s mostly about chocolate.
~Darynda Jones

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Can’t Find My Way Home

~dac10012: Blind Faith introduces the song in Hyde Park, London (5:57)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PJJnA6zEcGk

‒or‒

~Ant Varandonis: Eric Clapton ‒ Steve Winwood (5:01) seasoned by the years
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8L82II1lNjo

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~Charlie Hansen: Seek // Find (4:43) abandoned mining town, discovery, music to suit, in B&W

‒or‒

~Imogen Heap: You Know Where to Find Me (4:57) everywhere

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~Letupita725GD: I’ve Got To Find A Way (1:41) Li’l Pony cartoon confection

‒or‒

~Andrea Vanzo: Find a Melody (2:57) playing piano bareback

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~Daniel Caesar: We Find Love (5:25) in two parts

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~RISE9094: Drake • Find Your Love (3:32) …in a party setting

‒or‒

~A Tribe Called Quest: Find A Way (3:45) …rapping to gyrating bodies

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~Disney IT: Hannah Montana • You’ll always find your way back home (3:44) high energy cuteness

‒or‒

~DisneyMusic VEVO: Milo Manheim, Meg Donnelly • Gotta Find Where I Belong (2:44) teen angst meets identity crisis with good intention

‒or‒

~Nick Jonas: Find You (3:38) desert/beach-side love angst

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~Tracy Lawrence: Find Out Who You’re Friends Are (3:49) …in hard times

‒or‒

~Dylan Scott: Can’t Have Mine ‒ (Find You A Girl) (3:14) good-hearted wishes, but…, country style

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~P I R: Lou Rawls • You’ll Never Find Another Love (3:56) Soul Train classic

‒or‒

~Warmer Music Videos: Pablo Cruise • Love Will Find A Way (3:37) 1978

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~Enigma: Principles Of Lust: Sadeness/Find Love/Sadeness (11:45) low intensity mystery, journey thru moods, images, music

‒or‒

~The Divine Matrix: Enya • So I Could Find My Way (4:26) serene, to garishly pretty, Kinkaid-style garden settings

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~Big Mountain: I Would Find A Way (4:08) island music

‒or‒

~Jah Cure: Never Find (3:28) reggae

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~Christopher Martin: You’ll Never Find (3:59) lush setting, but best friends?

‒or‒

~Mahogany: Teddy Swims • Will It Find Me (3:41) nice song, sweet voice, rough exterior

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~Sherwin Gardner: Find Me Here (2:06) upbeat gratitude for life’s kindness

‒or‒

~R E M: Find The River (3:56) thoughtful, mournful

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~Drew Holdomb & The Neighbors: Find Your People (3:10) friends and neighbors, a celebration

‒or‒

~Lukas Nelson and Promise of the Real: Find Yourself (4:10) friends again, different message

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I am good, but not an angel. I do sin, but I am not the devil. I am just a small girl in a big world trying to find someone to love.
~Marilyn Monroe

Im working on just finding a boyfriend right now.
~Kylie

Our society puts too much emphasis on finding someone who will love you; our culture focuses too much on being loved and not enough on being a loving person.
~Harold S Kushner

Those that go searching for love only make manifest their own lovelessness, and the loveless never find love, only the loving find love, and they never have to seek for it.
~D H Lawrence

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Love isn’t something you find. Love is something that finds you.
~Loretta Young

You don’t find love, it finds you. It’s got a little bit to do with destiny, fate, and what’s written in the stars.
~Anais Nin

Don’t find love, let it find you. It’s called falling in love because you don’t force yourself to fall, you just do.
~Taylor Swift

So, I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you.
~Paulo Coelho

It’s easy to fall in love. The hard part is finding someone to catch you.
~Bertrand Russell

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We come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.
~Sam Keen

The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
~Thomas Merton

Love may be harder to find in some people, but when they do love you know it must be something marvelous.
~Criss Jami

(Exercise: Altho not found in the original quote, please note how a comma inserted either before, or after, the word ‘you’ in the above sentence would have changed its direction and focus.)

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I dream about finding an exception and finding someone who would make me believe in love and realize that it can work out.
~Taylor Swift

Don’t Make Assumptions. Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.
~Don Miguel Ruiz

Life is not about making dough or how many movies you can make in a year. It’s about finding someone that you can share things with.
~Freddie Prinze, Jr

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To be content, to find true love, is what essentially drives us all, but if found, would it be recognized?
~Ambrose

We lose ourselves in things we love. We find ourselves there, too.
~Kristin Martz

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Where there is love, there is no question. Where there is a question, there is no love. Then it becomes a business. So love is the totality of the self. My dear folks, if you cannot find yourself, you can never find anybody you want to find.
~Harbhajan Singh Yogi

Don’t worry about finding your soul mate. Find yourself.
~Jason Evert

Go find yourself first
So you can also find me.
~Rumi

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The more we are filled with thoughts of lust the less we find true romantic love.
~Douglas Horton

There’s a difference between lust and passionate love. Lust can’t just creep in. You’ll not find it where true love exists, but it has power enough to shatter the world you’ve worked so hard to create with love, and sometimes, it suddenly changes how you perceived love to begin with. Love then doesn’t live there anymore.
~Jennifer Winget

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No man is worth your tears, but once you find one that is, he won’t make you cry.
~Dwight D Eisenhower

Truth is everybody is going to hurt you: you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.
~Bob Marley

Love will find a way through paths where wolves fear to prey.
~Lord Byron

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Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone ‒ we find it with another.
~Thomas Merton

If you find it in your heart to care for somebody else, you will have succeeded.
~Maya Angelou

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The feeling of losing oneself in somebody’s arms, yet at the same time finding oneself there, is irreplaceable. Nothing compares to the intensity of that feeling.
~Katarina Witt

Love is always open arms. If you close your arms about love you will find that you are left holding only yourself.
~Leo Buscaglia

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Warriors fear surrender. They are proud and defiant. They will fight to the death for what they believe in. They will struggle to conquer. Love is not about conquest. The truth is a man can only find true love when he surrenders to it. When he opens his heart to the partner of his soul and says: ‘here it is! the very essence of me! It is yours to nurture or destroy.’
~David Gemmell

The Warrior of the Light is a believer. Because he believes in miracles, miracles begin to happen. Because he is sure that his thoughts can change his life, his life begins to change. Because he is certain that he will find love, love appears.
~Paulo Coelho

Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
~Rumi

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Following your heart means allowing the possibility of finding true love to be stronger than the fear of rejection.
~Susane Colasanti

I’ve never been afraid to fall in love, nor impatient to find it.
~Trevor Noah

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When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand.
~Henri Nouwen

If you find someone who makes you smile, who checks up on you often to see if you’re okay. Who watches out for you and wants the best for you. Who loves and respects you. Don’t let them go. People like that are hard to find.
~Franz Kafka

If you find someone you love in your life, then hang on to that love.
~Princess Diana

Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling in at night. I miss you like hell.
~Edna St Vincent Millay

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At the beginning and at the end of love, the two lovers are embarrassed to find themselves alone.
~Jean de la Bruyere

It seems that the greatest difficulty is to find the end. Don’t try to find it, it’s there already.
~Sofia Coppola

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Being a big guy, you face certain challenges. Over time, though, women found excuses to find me attractive.
~Rick Ross

Love you will find only where you may show yourself weak without provoking strength.
~Theodor Adorno

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Wherever you find real love, you will also find humility. Remember something: humility is not a weak and timid quality. Too often we feel that humility is a sign of weakness. This is not so. It is the sign of strength and security.
~Kathryn Kuhlman

If you believe in yourself, if you are without fear, you will also be tolerant, non-aggressive and find love.
~Rollo Armstrong

Whoever doesn’t know it must learn and find by experience that ‘a quiet conscience makes one strong!’
~Anne Frank

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My husband and I are best of friends first and foremost. We fight like cats and dogs, but never stay mad for long. I was lucky to find him, he is in every way, my soulmate.
~Carnie Wilson

I love being married. It’s so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.
~Rita Rudner

In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find, and continue to find, grounds for marriage.
~Robert Anderson

I believe in the institution loyalty and love, to stay with someone in good and hard times. I don’t think a piece of paper or anything else can force you to do that. For many people get marry is super important, for me, the important thing is finding someone.
~Enrique Iglesias

To fall in love is easy, even to remain in it is not difficult; our human loneliness is cause enough. But it is a hard quest worth making to find a comrade through whose steady presence one becomes steadily the person one desires to be.
~Anna Louise Strong

It was finally becoming clear to her that love wasn’t about finding someone perfect to marry. Love was about seeing through to the truth of a person, and accepting all their shades of light and dark. Love was an ability.
~Lisa Kleypas

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I’m looking forward to finding someone in life that I can be truly happy with and relate to on all levels ‒ someone I can bounce my stuff off. Right now, though, I’m not searching for that. But I still like knowing it will be out there sometime later.
~Josh Hartnett

When I find the right person, nothing else will matter, but I’m prepared to kiss a lot of frogs.
~Sam Smith

I rise to taste the dawn, and find that love alone will shine today.
~Ken Wilber

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One can find women who have never had one love affair, but it is rare indeed to find any who have had only one.
~Francois de La Rochefoucauld

Lead me not into temptation; I can find the way myself.
~Rita Mae Brown

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I would ask every man and every woman who’s had the blessing of having children, ‘Would you deny your son or your daughter the ecstasy of finding someone to love?’ To love someone takes a lot of courage. So how much more is one challenged when the love is of the same sex and the laws say, ‘I forbid you from loving this person’?
~Maya Angelou

Finding someone to share your life with is one of the most important things a human can do and was preached to me by my mother.
~Johnny Weir

Love will find its way through all languages on its own.
~Rumi

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How many times have you said, ‘This is it. I’ve finally found my one true love’? And how many times has the reality turned out differently? Paperback romances and fairy tales promote an ideal of a first and only love, but few of us can claim to have had such uncomplicated good fortune. For most people, the process of finding the perfect partner is one trial and error: breakups, makeups, missed opportunities and misunderstandings. Human love is a fragile creation, and sometimes the smallest thing ‒ the wrong choice of words or a single clumsy gesture ‒ can make love shatter, stall or fade away.
~Haruki Murakami

We all have this fantasy of finding our one true love who’s going to be the perfect fit. It’s just not a reality.
~Ethan Hawke

Let the people who never find true love keep saying that there’s no such thing. Their faith will make it easier for them to live and die.
~Wislawa Szymborska

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Love is nothing other than finding the truth.
~Rumi

Take responsibility for finding your one true love
~Bo Sanchez

If finding true love was easy we’d all have a lot more free time.
~John Avery

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You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.
~Dr Seuss

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Most people have a harder time letting themselves love than finding someone to love them.
~Bill Russell

Don’t be silly. Loving is easy. It’s finding someone to love you back that’s hard.
~Sabrina Jeffries

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I believe that if life gives you lemons, you should make lemonade… And try to find somebody whose life has given them vodka, and have a party.
~Ron White

Once you find someone to share your ups and downs, downs are almost as good as ups.
~Robert Breault

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Love that we cannot have is the one that lasts the longest, hurts the deepest and feels the strongest. Love is not finding someone to live with; it’s finding someone you can’t live without.
~Raphael Montanez Ortiz

What we seek in love is finding someone with whom we feel safe to reveal our true self.
~Karen Salmansohn

And you may find somebody kind to help and understand you
Someone who is just like you and needs a gentle hand to guide them along
So maybe I’ll see you there
We can forget all our troubles, forget all our cares, and go
Downtown
~Petula Clark

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A woman’s heart should be so hidden in God that a man has to seek Him just to find her.
~Max Lucado

You will never find true love until you first learn to love Allah
~Boonaa Mohammed

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Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they’re trying to find someone who’s going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.
~Tony Robbins

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Finding him was like finding someone I didn’t know I was searching for. He’d come into my life too late, and now was leaving too soon. I remembered him telling he’d give up everything for me. He already had.
~Becca Fitzpatrick

Isn’t this the best part of breakin’ up? Finding someone else you can’t get enough of. Someone who wants to be with you, too.
~Liz Phair (Why Can’t I?)

If you’re having trouble finding someone to play with, why don’t you just go play with yourself.
~Amy Dumas

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Eventually, if you’re lucky in life, you find someone with the same chemical imbalance you have.
~Robert Breault

The girl I find who wants to talk about quantum theory in a bar is the one I want to marry.
~Brandon Boyd

We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness — and call it love
~Robert Fulghum

Finding someone who’s willing to drown with you creates a situation where you no longer want to drown.
~Marilyn Manson

My parents never told me I couldn’t do anything, I remember watching superhero movies and saying, ‘I wish I had superpowers.’ And my dad said, ‘You do. You just have to find them.’
~Caleb McLaughlin

When I was 18, I thought my father was pretty dumb. After a while when I got to be 21, I was amazed to find out how much he’d learned in three years.
~Frank Butler

Pinocchio, spurred on by the hope of finding his father and of being in time to save him, swam all night long.
~Carlo Collodi

The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness.
~Honore de Balzac

We define family in many different ways: not just by blood but by people with whom we find a common ground and a common bond.
~Adrienne C Moore

You find inspiration everywhere. The best inspiration is the people you grew up with. Nobody else knows about you than when you were just regular, everyday people. That’s where most of it comes from.
~Bray Wyatt

It is when we are most lost that we sometimes find our truest friends.
~Cynthia Rylant

You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end.
~Bob Marley

True friendship multiplies the good in life and divides its evils. Strive to have friends, for life without friends is like life on a desert island… to find one real friend in a lifetime is good fortune; to keep him is a blessing.
~Baltasar Gracian

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It is important to find a place where you feel trust, you feel belonging and stability.
~Bojan Krkic

A man travels the world over in search of what he needs and returns home to find it.
~George A Moore

Seeing my friends succeed, find love, or just feeling content makes me feel unconditionally happy.
~Troian Bellisario

The genuine realist, if he is an unbeliever, will always find strength and ability to disbelieve in the miraculous, and if he is confronted with a miracle as an irrefutable fact he would rather disbelieve his own senses than admit the miraculous also.
~Fyodor Dostoevsky

If you study the writings of the mystics, you will always find things in them that appear to be paradoxes, as in Zen, particularly.
~Alan Watts

I think the ambiguity of similarity and difference is very powerful… You force the mind, which is always comparing and contrasting, to stumble … That ambiguity is very powerful. One is getting lost and refinding oneself.
~David Hockney

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The middle way is a view of life that avoids the extreme of misguided grasping born of believing there is something we can find, or buy, or cling to that will not change. And it avoids the despair and nihilism born from the mistaken belief that nothing matters, that all is meaningless.
~Sharon Salzberg

Your discovery, as best as I can determine, is that there is an alternative which no one has hit upon. It is that one finding oneself in one of life’s critical situations need not after all respond in one of the traditional ways. No. One may simply default. Pass. Do as one pleases, shrug, turn on one’s heel and leave. Exit. Why after all need one act humanly?
~Walker Percy

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Without accepting the fact that everything changes, we cannot find perfect composure… Because we cannot accept the truth of transience, we suffer.
~Shunryu Suzuki

Isn’t it the moment of most profound doubt that gives birth to new certainties? Perhaps hopelessness is the very soil that nourishes human hope; perhaps one could never find sense in life without first experiencing its absurdity.
~Vaclav Havel

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Satyagraha is the pursuit of truth. My grandfather believed that truth should be the cornerstone of everybody’s life and that we must dedicate our lives to pursuing truth, to finding out the truth in our lives. And so his entire philosophy was the philosophy of life.
~Arun Manilal Gandhi

Seek not greatness, but seek truth and you will find both.
~Horace Mann

I long, as does every human being, to be at home wherever I find myself.
~Maya Angelou

Never make your home in a place. Make a home for yourself inside your own head. You’ll find what you need to furnish it ‒ memory, friends you can trust, love of learning, and other such things. That way it will go with you wherever you journey.
~Tad Williams

It’s not about finding a home so much as finding yourself.
~Jason Behr

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Surround yourself with people who support you. Find champions.
~Sarah Gavron

The best thing to do when you find yourself in a hurting or vulnerable place is to surround yourself with the strongest, finest, most positive people you know.
~Kristin Armstrong

Find people who love you unconditionally, surround yourself with them, and bring them the same level of intensity.
~Sean Stephenson

You really don’t find too many good people. You really don’t. Keep them around.
~Playboi Carti

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Find people who will make you better.
~Michelle Obama

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Among those whom I like or admire, I can find no common denominator, but among those whom I love, I can: all of them make me laugh.
~W H Auden

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If a man does not make new acquaintances as he advances through life, he will soon find himself left alone. A man, sir, should keep his friendship in a constant repair.
~Samuel Johnson

We are all travelers in the wilderness of this world, and the best we can find in our travels is an honest friend.
~Robert Louis Stevenson

A connection should be natural. Just be yourself, and you will find someone who likes you for exactly what you are.
~BJ the Chicago Kid

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To find a friend one must close one eye ‒ to keep him, two.
~Norman Douglas

You find out who your real friends are when you’re involved in a scandal.
~Elizabeth Taylor

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How delightful to find a friend in everyone.
~Joseph Brodsky

Though the sex to which I belong is considered weak you will nevertheless find me a rock that bends to no wind.
~Elizabeth I

A woman uses her intelligence to find reasons to support her intuition.
~Gilbert K Chesterton

A man finds love and is satisfied. A woman finds love and insists on turning it into happiness.
~Robert Breault

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Nothing is worse than a beautiful girl fishing for compliments by saying how gross she is. On the flip side, I find genuine humility and modesty attractive.
~Chris Evans

I’ve come to the conclusion that beautiful women in the West aren’t comfortable finding strength in their femininity. They want to do masculine-oriented things to establish their femininity. It’s a contradiction.
~Wesley Snipes

It’s a life’s journey of finding ourselves, finding our power, and living for yourself, not for everyone else.
~Mariska Hargitay

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Plaza de la Soledad” is a documentary about Carmen, Lety, Raquel and Esther, four strong women ‒ middle-aged and older ‒ who want to break a vicious circle that began with abuse and abandonment suffered from an early age. They simply want to have a better life. The film follows their quest to find true love and their capacity to transform themselves.
~Maya Goded

A conviction that you are a daughter of God gives you a feeling of comfort in your self-worth. It means that you can find strength… A woman can and must have an identity and feel useful, valued, and needed whether she is single or married. She must feel that she can do something for someone else that no one else ever born can do
~James E Faust

Every character that I play, even if it’s a homemaker, there is an inherent, innate strength in her ‒ you can find strength in every facet of a female personality. It doesn’t just come from the physical strength of a woman.
~Priyanka Chopra

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Some of us will never ever find true love. Take, for instance me. And I’m pretty sure that guy right there. And that lady with the sideburns. And basically everybody at table nine.
~Adam Sandler

Money won’t make you happy… but everybody wants to find out for themselves.
~Zig Ziglar

A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man.
~Lana Turner

Drag a $100 bill through a trailer camp and there’s no telling what you will find.
~James Carville

Instead of getting married again, I’m going to find a woman I don’t like and just give her a house.
~Rod Stewart

My cousin’s gay, he went to London only to find out that Big Ben was a clock.
~Rodney Dangerfield

A hard man is good to find.
~Mae West

Some stalkers are quite benign, but finding someone in your garden at three o’clock in the morning with a meat cleaver and a hard-on can’t be much fun.
~Daniel Craig

A lot of people like snow. I find it to be an unnecessary freezing of water.
~Carl Reiner

I’m going to get an MRI to find out whether I have claustrophobia.
~Steven Wright

The Supreme Court has ruled that they cannot have a nativity scene in Washington, D.C. This wasn’t for any religious reasons. They couldn’t find three wise men and a virgin.
~Jay Leno

If at first you don’t succeed, find out if the loser gets anything.
~William Lyon Phelps

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We are biological creatures. We are born, we live, we die. There is no transcendent purpose to existence. At best we are creatures of reason, and by using reason we can cure ourselves of emotional excess. Purged of both hope and fear, we find courage in the face of helplessness, insignificance and uncertainty.
~Jonathan Sacks

That though the radiance which was once so bright be now forever taken from my sight. Though nothing can bring back the hour of splendor in the grass, glory in the flower. We will grieve not, rather find strength in what remains behind.
~William Wordsworth

When I see nothing annihilated, and not even a drop of water wasted, I cannot suspect the annihilation of souls Thus finding myself to exist in the world, I believe I shall, in some shape or other, always exist; with all the inconveniences human life is liable to, I shall not object to a new edition of mine; hoping, however, that the errata of the last may be corrected.
~Benjamin Franklin

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Before you find out who you are, you have to figure out who you aren’t.
~Iyanla Vanzant

But anyone can begin. It was the part with all the promise, the potential, the things I loved. More and more, though, I was finding myself wanting to find out what happened in the end.
~Sarah Dessen

It is always our own self that we find at the end of the journey. The sooner we face that self, the better.
~Ella Maillart

In the end you don’t so much find yourself as you find someone who knows who you are.
~Robert Brault

Whatever it takes to find the real you, don’t be daunted if the rest of the world looks on in shock.
~Stephen Richards

If I find in myself a desire which no experience in this world can satisfy, the most probable explanation is that I was made for another world.
~C S Lewis

It’s a long old road, but I know I’m gonna find the end.
~Bessie Smith

Perhaps the most important thing we bring to another person is the silence in us, not the sort of silence that is filled with unspoken criticism or hard withdrawal. The sort of silence that is a place of refuge, of rest, of acceptance of someone as they are. We are all hungry for this other silence. It is hard to find. In its presence we can remember something beyond the moment, a strength on which to build a life. Silence is a place of great power and healing.
~Rachel Naomi Remen

I am not sure what lonliness is,” she said. “If it is not literally being solitary, is it the fear of solitude, of being alone with oneself? I feel no such fear. I like being alone.” “What do you fear then?” he asked her. She glanced briefly at him and smiled, a fragile expression that spoke for itself even before she found words. “Never finding myself again.”
~Mary Balogh

Many people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.
~Rollo May

It is only in solitude that I ever find my own core.
~Anne Morrow Lindbergh

Not until we are lost do we begin to understand ourselves.
~Henry David Thoreau

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Glow
© Silvia Trujillo

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He who seeks does not find, but he who does not seek will be found.
~Franz Kafka

For me, Pemako* symbolizes the place that you find only when your journey has changed you into the person who can finally recognize it — meandering homeward, finding without looking.
~Dave Royer

When your world falls apart and you’re left with just yourself, you’re forced to discover who you are without all the beliefs, expectations, views, & self-image provided by some teacher or system. The calculating mind gives way to the intuitive mind, Knowing without Thinking.
~Gabrielle Roth


*Hidden Falls, in Tsanpo Gorge, Tibetan Himalayas, deepest canyon on Earth; seen by one outsider only

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A journey is a person in itself; no two are alike. And all plans, safeguards, policing, and coercion are fruitless. We find that after years of struggle that we do not take a trip; a trip takes us.
~John Steinbeck

Find out who you are and be that person. That’s what your soul was put on this Earth to be. Find that truth, live that truth and everything else will come.
~Ellen DeGeneres

The true delight is in the finding out rather than in the knowing.
~Isaac Asimov

To find fault is easy; to do better may be difficult.
~Plutarch

Living alone makes it harder to find someone to blame.
~Mason Cooley

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It seems that we’re better at finding someone to blame for our problems than we are at finding creative solutions to fix them.
~Neil deGrasse Tyson

You can’t grow and learn if your focus is on finding someone else to blame instead of looking at your own shortcomings.
~John C Maxwell

All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you…
~Casey Stengel

Creatures which, lacking mankind’s superior brain power, did not concern themselves with finding someone to blame, and instead tried to find someone to eat.
~Terry Pratchett

I despise formal restaurants. I find all of that formality to be very base and vile. I would much rather eat potato chips on the sidewalk.
~Werner Herzog

In tragedy, it’s hard to find a good resolution; it’s not black and white: it’s a big fog of gray.
~Paul Dano

Life isn’t black and white. It’s a million gray areas, don’t you find?
~Ridley Scott

I don’t find anything black and white; I find grey in every person, and that is what excites me.
~Vetrimaaran

One must look for one thing only, to find many.
~Cesare Pavese

I was once referred to in a Kirkus review as a “northern Michigan version of Andre Dubus.” My editor called me after the review came out and asked if I was okay with that. What part? I wondered. Finding myself in the same sentence with Andre Dubus? What could be better than that? Or perhaps ‒ and more likely, my editor meant being pigeonholed as a writer of this remote region “mostly ignored by the rest of the world,” as Jim Harrison says.
~Jack Driscoll

I look out this window and think this is a cosmos, this is a huge creation, this is one small corner of it. The trees and the birds and everything else and I am part of it. I didn’t ask to be put here. I’ve been lucky finding myself here.
~Morris West

Where ever I am I always find myself looking out the window wishing I was somewhere else.
~Angelina Jolie

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I actually enjoyed getting lost in Japan’s backroads, finding myself in a wasabi farm.
~Travis Rice

I love Rome and the way that you can wander around and find something interesting around every street corner. You can smell the history.
~Jonathan Agnew

I was practically driven to Rome in order to obtain the opportunities for art culture and to find a social atmosphere where I was not constantly reminded of my color. The land of liberty had no room for a colored sculptor.
~Edmonia Lewis

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@Writers Platform

The heart and soul of good writing is research; you should write not what you know but what you can find out about.
~Robert J Sawyer

A big part of finding the right resources is knowing what to look for and what to avoid.
~Matthew Lesko

I build my stories character-first, and so whether it’s a monster or a ghost or a serial killer, the fear of something dark interrupting life has just always been something that matters to me as a storyteller, or what I keep finding myself drawn back to.
~Bryan Bertino

I noticed the different kids were always put down by other people and it would cause them to become almost violent with themselves. It’s not really necessary; there’s a way to find strength in yourself, and for me it was writing. That was sort of my release and my escape, so the term ‘Knives and Pens’ to me was like a choice. You can either create, or become violent, and maybe go down a dark road.
~Andy Biersack

I like to write in a shroud of secrecy because I have to keep finding ways to scare myself.
~M Night Shyamalan

The danger sensation is exciting. The challenge is to find new dangers.
~Ayrton Senna (motorsports)

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I decided that it was not wisdom that enabled poets to write their poetry, but a kind of instinct or inspiration, such as you find in seers and prophets who deliver all their sublime messages without knowing in the least what they mean.
~Socrates

You can find poetry in your everyday life, your memory, in what people say on the bus, in the news, or just what’s in your heart.
~Carol Ann Duffy

Everywhere I go I find that a poet has been there before me.
~Sigmund Freud

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I made a big conscious decision in my life when I was writing all these big action movies and doing different kind of fare but very proud of it, I was finding myself less and less passionate about doing it.
~Ric Roman Waugh

The greatest pleasure when I started making money was not buying cars or yachts but finding myself able to have as many freshly typed drafts as possible.
~Gore Vidal

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I often hear people say that they read to escape reality, but I believe that what they’re really doing is reading to find reason for hope, to find strength. While a bad book leaves readers with a sense of hopelessness and despair, a good novel, through stories of values realized, of wrongs righted, can bring to readers a connection to the wonder of life. A good novel shows how life can and ought to be lived. It not only entertains but energizes and uplifts readers.
~Terry Goodkind

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They say it is the first step that costs the effort. I do not find it so. I am sure I could write unlimited ‘first chapters’. I have indeed written many.
~J R R Tolkien

I guess there’s just a part of me that’s not very enthusiastic about finding myself ten years from now halfway through a story that may or may not be any good.
~Adrian Tomine

You can always find a distraction if you’re looking for one.
~Tom Kite

I have suffered, like other writers, from indolence, irresolution, distaste to my work, absence of ‘inspiration,’ and all that: but I have also found that sitting down, however reluctantly, with the pen in my hand, I have never worked for one quarter of an hour without finding myself in full train.
~Harriet Martineau

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I love quotations because it is a joy to find thoughts one might have, beautifully expressed with much authority by someone recognized wiser than oneself.
~Marlene Dietrich

I remember thinking about how fun it would be to be a reporter. I had a dream, when I was little, to become a police officer and a crime investigator. It depends on what kind of stories you’re reporting, but it’s very similar. You’re finding out the truth.
~Katia Winter

I got in journalism for any number of reasons, not least because it’s so much fun. Journalism should be in the business of putting pressure on power, finding out the truth, of shining a light on injustice, of, when appropriate, being amusing and entertaining ‒ it’s a complicated and varied beast, journalism.
~David Remnick

What passes for investigative journalism is finding somebody with their pants down ‒ literally or otherwise.
~Robert Scheer

If you look hard enough, you’ll find something good about me and say it.
~Jimmy Swaggart

Stop saying these negative things about yourself. Look in the mirror and find something about yourself that’s positive and celebrate that!
~Tyra Banks

When you have a lot of people telling you what you are and perceiving you in a certain way, it’s difficult to find your own identity.
~Sia

You don’t need validation from other people. You’ve gotta find it within yourself and sit in it and roll with it.
~Dawn Richard

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Your problem is how you are going to spend this one odd and precious life you have been issued. Whether you’re going to spend it trying to look good and creating the illusion that you have power over people and circumstances, or whether you are going to taste it, enjoy it and find out the truth about who you are.
~Anne Lamott

Your life is the sum result of all the choices you make, both consciously and unconsciously. If you can control the process of choosing, you can take control of all aspects of your life. You can find the freedom that comes from being in charge of yourself.
~Robert Foster Bennett

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Prewritten Prompt: find

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I’ll do my best to always put God and neighbor ahead of ego, but I want to find myself, and if finding myself means losing my ego self, I’ll go there.
~Barbara Brown Taylor

Lose yourself wholly; and the more you lose, the more you will find.
~Catherine Of Siena

I am not a conventionally religious man, but in the wilderness I have come closest to finding myself and knowing the universe and accepting God ‒ by which I mean accepting all that I don’t know.
~Bob Brown

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If the whole universe can be found in our own body and mind, this is where we need to make our inquires. We all have the answers within ourselves, we just have not got in touch with them yet. The potential of finding the truth within requires faith in ourselves.
~Ayya Khema

What do you mean by faith? Is faith enough for Man? Should he be satisfied with faith alone? Is there no way of finding out the truth? Is the attitude of faith, of believing in something for which there can be no more than philosophic proof, the true mark of a Christian?
~Clifford D Simak

Really, it is the Lord who carries the cross, for He knows how to make the soul content with little or no consolation and always to find strength in the words…”Thy will be done.”
~Rose Philippine Duchesne

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The devil is no fool. He can get people feeling about heaven the way they ought to feel about hell. He can make them fear the means of grace the way they do not fear sin. And he does so, not by light but by obscurity, not by realities but by shadows; not by clarity and substance, but by dreams and the creatures of psychosis. And men are so poor in intellect that a few cold chills down their spine will be enough to keep them from ever finding out the truth about anything.
~Thomas Merton

A Godly leader … finds strength by realizing his weakness
finds authority by being under authority
finds direction by laying down his plans
finds vision by seeing the needs of others
finds credibility by being an example
finds loyalty by expressing compassion
finds honor by being faithful
finds greatness by being a servant
~Roy Lessin

Be generous to the poor orphans and those in need. The man to whom our Lord has been liberal ought not to be stingy. We shall one day find in Heaven as much rest and joy as we ourselves have dispensed in this life.
~Saint Ignatius

I would rather live my life as if there is a God and die to find out there isn’t, than live as if there isn’t and to die to find out that there is.
~Blaise Pascal

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The first step toward finding God, Who is Truth, is to discover the truth about myself: and if I have been in error, this first step to truth is the discovery of my error.
~Thomas Merton

We need to find God, and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friend of silence. See how nature ‒ trees, flowers, grass ‒ grows in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence… We need silence to be able to touch souls.
~Mother Teresa

A spirit of restlessness and resistance can never wait, but one who believes he is loved with an everlasting love, and knows that underneath are the everlasting arms, will find strength and peace.
~Elisabeth Elliot

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You know, the Bible is so clear. Go to Genesis chapter nine and you will find the death penalty clearly stated in Genesis chapter nine… God ordains the death penalty!
~Rafael Cruz

I believe that God knows what each of us wants and needs. It’s not necessary for us to make it to church on Sunday to reach Him. You can find Him anyplace. And if that sounds heretical, my source is pretty good: Matthew, Five to Seven, The Sermon on the Mount.
~Frank Sinatra

We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
~Desmond Tutu

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You can hide from the devil, but he’ll always find you.
~Allen Iverson

Be ever engaged, so that whenever the devil calls he may find you occupied.
~St Jerome

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I feel like if you’re a really good human being, you can try to find something beautiful in every single person, no matter what.
~Lady Gaga

Where can we go to find God if we cannot see Him in our own hearts and in every living being.
~Swami Vivekananda

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May we have communion with God in the secret of our hearts, and find Him to be to us as a little sanctuary.
~Charles Spurgeon

God can cause opportunity to find you. He has unexpected blessings where you suddenly meet the right person, or suddenly your health improves, or suddenly you’re able to pay off your house. That’s God shifting things in your favor.
~Joel Osteen

I have a strong belief in God… I find religion to be a very personal thing… I am also very spiritual.
~Sela Ward

There is a comfort in rituals, and rituals provide a framework for stability when you are trying to find answers.
~Deborah Norville

What is magic? In the deepest sense, magic is an experience. It’s the experience of finding oneself alive within a world that is itself alive. It is the experience of contact and communication between oneself and something that is profoundly different from oneself: a swallow, a frog, a spider weaving its web.
~David Abram

My soul can find no staircase to Heaven unless it be through Earth’s loveliness.
~Michelangelo

He who marvels at the beauty of the world in summer will find equal cause for wonder and admiration in winter.
~John Burroughs

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When we try to pick out anything by itself, we find it hitched to everything else in the universe.
~John Muir

We can find Nature outside us only if we have first learned to know her within us. What is akin to her within us must be our guide. This marks out our path of enquiry.
~Rudolf Steiner

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Know where to find the sunrise and sunset times and note how the sky looks at those times, at least once.
~Marilyn vos Savant

I know my corn plants intimately, and I find it a great pleasure to know them.
~Barbara McClintock

You will find something more in woods than in books. Trees and stones will teach you that which you can never learn from masters.
~Saint Bernard

Those who find beauty in all of nature will find themselves at one with the secrets of life itself.
~L Wolfe Gilbert

I’m finding myself very comfortable talking to medical audiences, and proving to them that underlying the material fields of the universe are force fields.
~Deepak Chopra

At its heart, engineering is about using science to find creative, practical solutions. It is a noble profession.
~Queen Elizabeth II

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Who are we? We find that we live on an insignificant planet of a humdrum star lost in a galaxy tucked away in some forgotten corner of a universe in which there are far more galaxies than people.
~Carl Sagan

I’m really hopeful about the future of space exploration and human spaceflight. Civilization as we know it has been defined by exploration. You know, we need to go off and find out what’s around the next corner and what’s just beyond what we already know. It’s part of our being; it’s part of our moral fiber to go off and explore.
~Alan G Poindexter

There have to be reasons that you get up in the morning and you want to live. Why do you want to live? What’s the point? What inspires you? What do you love about the future? If the future does not include being out there among the stars and being a multi-planet species, I find that incredibly depressing.
~Elon Musk

I throw a spear into the darkness. That is intuition. Then I must send an army into the darkness to find the spear. That is intellect.
~Ingmar Bergman

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Everything we do, every thought we’ve ever had, is produced by the human brain. But exactly how it operates remains one of the biggest unsolved mysteries, and it seems the more we probe its secrets, the more surprises we find.
~Neil deGrasse Tyson

The spiral in a snail’s shell is the same mathematically as the spiral in the Milky Way galaxy, and it’s also the same mathematically as the spirals in our DNA. It’s the same ratio that you’ll find in very basic music that transcends cultures all over the world.
~Joseph Gordon-Levitt

Science is a perception of the world around us. Science is a place where what you find in nature pleases you.
~Subrahmanyan Chandrasekhar

It is wrong to think that the task of physics is to find out how Nature is. Physics concerns what we say about Nature.
~Niels Bohr

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You only find what you are looking for, really, if the truth be known.
~Mary Leakey (anthropologist)

Just because we can’t find a solution it doesn’t mean that there isn’t one.
~Andrew Wiles (mathematician)

I used to be enamored of object-oriented programming. I’m now finding myself leaning toward believing that it is a plot designed to destroy joy.
~Eric Allman

It is very unfair, and on social media you have all these keyboard warriors who just type something, and they never say it to my face. That’s very weak I find.
~Max Verstappen

Historically, privacy was almost implicit, because it was hard to find and gather information. But in the digital world, whether it’s digital cameras or satellites or just what you click on, we need to have more explicit rules ‒ not just for governments but for private companies.
~Bill Gates

We have to find places that we protect away from government so that we can all be the unique and interesting and, in my case, somewhat deviant people we’d like to be.
~Alexander Karp (data mining/analytics)

If you are curious, you’ll find the puzzles around you. If you are determined, you will solve them.
~Erno Rubik

I’m curious. Period. I find everything interesting. Real life. Fake life. Objects. Flowers. Cats. But mostly people. If you keep your eyes open and your mind open, everything can be interesting.
~Agnes Varda

When you’re curious, you find lots of interesting things to do.
~Walt Disney

I was awfully curious to find out why I didn’t go insane.
~Abraham Maslo

Curiosity is the essence of human existence. ‘Who are we? Where are we? Where do we come from? Where are we going?’… I don’t know. I don’t have any answers to those questions. I don’t know what’s over there around the corner. But I want to find out.
~Gene Cernan (astronaut)

Take all the courses in your curriculum. Do the research. Ask questions. Find someone doing what you are interested in! Be curious!
~Katherine Johnson

With the education I had, all I could do was work as a burro, in whatever I could find: shoeshine boy, janitor, dishwasher, waiter, bartender, cashier, bricklayer, painter.
~Vicente Fernandez (Mexican singer/actor)

You learn about equality in history and civics, but you find out life is not really like that.
~Arthur Ashe

The instruction we find in books is like fire. We fetch it from our neighbours, kindle it at home, communicate it to others, and it becomes the property of all.
~Voltaire

No one lives long enough to learn everything they need to learn starting from scratch. To be successful, we absolutely, positively have to find people who have already paid the price to learn the things that we need to learn to achieve our goals.
~Brian Tracy

We live in a society that wants to label you with a color, sexuality, religion, or ethnicity. It divides us, but it also allows us to find pride in our identity.
~Logan Browning

I find, in being black, a thing of beauty: a joy; a strength; a secret cup of gladness.
~Ossie Davis

If I could find a white man who had the Negro sound and the Negro feel, I could make a billion dollars.
~Sam Phillips

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We must find new lands from which we can easily obtain raw materials and at the same time exploit the cheap slave labor that is available from the natives of the colonies. The colonies would also provide a dumping ground for the surplus goods produced in our factories.
~Cecil Rhodes

No one ever talks about the moment you found that you were white. Or the moment you found out you were black. That’s a profound revelation. The minute you find that out, something happens. You have to renegotiate everything.
~Toni Morrison

Racism keeps people who are being managed from finding out the truth through contact with each other.
~Shirley Chisholm

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§ The Exercise:

her eyes on the horizon #18

apprenticed to miss liberty
the statue? your question
your states once a bastion
one nation under god

no, to answer your question
but yes, i miss liberty
find our union an unlearned lesson
don’t tread on me, past tense: trod

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once upon a time

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pro•verbs

nothing pretends
like a platitude
nothing misapprehends
like bad attitudes
judge other worlds
with great latitude
find for kindness instead
of true rectitude
endings in pleasure
treasured with gratitude

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the difference

structure vs sculpture
fog bank vs cloud
fondness and passion
thinking and out-loud
wishing and doing
jingo vs proud
glowing warmth of a fireplace
against history’s furnace
a new present for the crowds

Preparing for a return to Oregon’s Rogue Valley, with the uncertainties ahead, it will take time before work on the Post & Review can resume. This editor has resolved not to waste time butting heads with current visions of empire, but is offering this short story with a different view of differences.

Bartok and The Bard At The Bar-None Saloon

…also the story that gave BarTalk his name in There.com

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The Olio and Salmagundi of Quotes

We’re never so vulnerable than when we trust someone ‒ but paradoxically, if we cannot trust, neither can we find love or joy.
~Walter Anderson

The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.
~Ernest Hemingway

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I find the great thing in this world is not so much where we stand, as in what direction we are moving: To reach the port of heaven, we must sail sometimes with the wind and sometimes against it ‒ but we must sail, and not drift, nor lie at anchor.
~Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr

If you’re serious about changing your life, you’ll find a way. If you’re not, you’ll find an excuse.
~Jen Sincero

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We are able to find everything in our memory, which is like a dispensary or chemical laboratory in which chance steers our hand sometimes to a soothing drug and sometimes to a dangerous poison.
~Marcel Proust

The reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they always see the past better than it was, the present worse than it is, and the future less resolved than it will be.
~Marcel Pagnol

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I used to have all these plans and think ‘Ah, I have my whole life figured out’, but then I realized no matter how much I plan: life happens! So I find myself living day to day trying to do my best, embracing every moment as a learning opportunity and chance to get to know myself a little more.
~Q’orianka Kilcher

In order to find yourself, who you really are, you got to be with yourself; you got to hang out with yourself.
~Post Malone

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If you look for truth, you may find comfort in the end; if you look for comfort you will not get either comfort or truth only soft soap and wishful thinking to begin, and in the end, despair.
~C S Lewis

Someday, somewhere – anywhere, unfailingly, you’ll find yourself, and that, and only that, can be the happiest or bitterest hour of your life.
~Pablo Neruda

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It’s important to find your tribe.
~RuPaul

The more you embrace the weird crazy things about you, the more you find your tribe.
~Jinkx Monsoon

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I will say a lot of dancers do such beautiful things for their body and then they smoke a cigarette. I’ve never been a smoker, but I realized after taking yoga . . . in ballet you’re not encouraged to do a lot of breathing. I think in a weird way, a lot of dancers find relief in actually breathing.
~Elizabeth Berkley

I used to smoke two packs a day and I just hate being a nonsmoker… but I will never consider myself a nonsmoker because I always find smokers the most interesting people at the table.
~Michelle Pfeiffer

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I will have faith that, though I might not understand why adversity happens, by my conscious choice I can find strength, compassion, and grace through my trials.
~Joe Tye

Sometimes you find your strongest faith in the darkest corners.
~Margo Price

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Basically, if you go looking for trouble, it’ll come find you.
~Estelle

In seeking comfort, we generally find a quiet corner in life where there is a minimum of conflict, and then we are afraid to step out of that seclusion.
~Jiddu Krishnamurti

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First find the man in yourself if you will inspire manliness in others.
~Amos Bronson Alcott

He who has not Christmas in his heart will never find it under a tree.
~Roy L Smith

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Stand up to your obstacles and do something about them. You will find that they haven’t half the strength you think they have.
~Norman Vincent Peale

One of the greatest discoveries a man makes, one of his great surprises, is to find he can do what he was afraid he couldn’t do.
~Henry Ford

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You must live in the present, launch yourself on every wave, find your eternity in each moment.
~Henry David Thoreau

Jump, and you will find out how to unfold your wings as you fall.
~Ray Bradbury

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We all do ‘do, re, mi,’ but you have got to find the other notes yourself.
~Louis Armstrong

Where can I find a man who has forgotten words so I can have a word with him?
~Zhuangzi

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Do not seek to bring things to pass in accordance with your wishes, but wish for them as they are, and you will find them.
~Epictetus

Either I will find a way, or I will make one.
~Philip Sidney

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Most gods throw dice, but Fate plays chess, and you don’t find out til too late that he’s been playing with two queens all along.
~Terry Pratchett

Angels are like diamonds. They can’t be made, you have to find them. Each one is unique.
~Jaclyn Smith

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Perhaps when we find ourselves wanting everything, it is because we are dangerously close to wanting nothing.
~Sylvia Plath

Here is the test to find whether your mission on Earth is finished: if you’re alive, it isn’t.
~Richard Bach

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Daring to me is having courage; it’s a daily meditation to take breath and find strength.
~Uma Thurman

Go within every day and find the inner strength so that the world will not blow your candle out
~Katherine Dunham

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The best way to find out whether you’re on the right path? Stop looking at the path.
~Marcus Buckingham

Never look down to test the ground before taking your next step; only he who keeps his eye fixed on the far horizon will find the right road.
~Dag Hammarskjold

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You’ll never find a better sparring partner than adversity.
~Golda Meir

Ghosts are all around us. Look for them, and you will find them.
~Ruskin Bond

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If men saw that a term was set to their troubles, they would find strength in some way to withstand the hocus-pocus and intimidations of the prophets.
~Lucretius

After an eternity of seeking, the sudden threshold of seeing and finding leaves one filled with a strange paradox of ecstasy and grief. I was born to see.
~Joy Page (comma added for clarity ~Ed Note)

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Thou wilt find rest from vain fancies if thou doest every act in life as though it were thy last.
~Aristotle

Find ecstasy in life; the mere sense of living is joy enough.
~Emily Dickinson

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Do what you will while you’re able, find what it is that you seek.
~Xavier Rudd

Never be so focused on what you’re looking for that you overlook the thing you actually find.
~Ann Patchett

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When you begin to worry, go find something to do. Get busy being a blessing to someone; do something fruitful. Talking about your problem or sitting alone, thinking about it, does no good; it serves only to make you miserable. Above all else, remember that worrying is totally useless. Worrying will not solve your problem.
~Joyce Meyer

You cannot teach a man anything, you can only help him find it within himself.
~Dale Carnegie

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We will all, at some point in our lives, fall. Every single one of us. We shouldn’t spend our time trying to avoid falling. We should spend it finding someone who will help us up!
~Nicole Williams

Never let your head hang down. Never give up and sit down and grieve. Find another way. And don’t pray when it rains if you don’t pray when the sun shines.
~Richard M Nixon

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I’m always thinking about creating. My future starts when I wake up every morning… Every day I find something creative to do with my life.
~Miles Davis

Theoretically there is no absolute proof that one’s awakening in the morning (the finding oneself again in the saddle of one’s personality) is not really a quite unprecedented event, a perfectly original birth.
~Vladimir Nabokov

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Every day is a new day, and you’ll never be able to find happiness if you don’t move on.
~Carrie Underwood

This is the part of us that makes our brief, improbable little lives worth living: the ability to reach through our own isolation and find strength, and comfort, and warmth for and in each other. This is what human beings do. This is what we live for, the way horses live to run.
~Martha Beck

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It is a bit embarrassing to have been concerned with the human problem all one’s life and find at the end that one has no more to offer by way of advice than ‘try to be a little kinder.’
~Aldous Huxley

What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness?
~Jean-Jacques Rousseau

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THIS EDITION: choice

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Quoted In The Grove:
We do not choose the day of our birth nor may we choose the day of our death, yet choice is the sovereign faculty of the mind.
~Thornton Wilder

With awareness come responsibility and choice.
~Amanda Lindhout

By choosing we learn to be responsible. By paying the price of our choices we learn to make better choices.
~Marsha Sinetar

EndQuote:
My mother told me when I was a kid that each time we get to what feels like the edge of a cliff, we have two choices: to turn around and run, or to jump. I have learned over time to jump ‒ and though it is scary, I know somewhere inside me that I will be caught.
~Maria Bello

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Next Exercise Prompt: find

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If you limit your choices only to what seems possible or reasonable, you disconnect yourself from what you truly want, and all that is left is a compromise.
~Robert Fritz

One reason we resist making deliberate choices is that choice equals change and most of us, feeling the world is unpredictable enough, try to minimise the trauma of change in our personal lives.
~Hugh Mackay

There is a point at which everything becomes simple and there is no longer any question of choice, because all you have staked will be lost if you look back. Life’s point of no return.
~Dag Hammarskjold

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When you’re different you’ve got two choices. You can stand out or you step back.
~Niall Williams

Talent allows people to stand out, but their wrong choices make them sit down.
~John C Maxwell

The key choices you make‒apart from the natural talent you already have‒will set you apart from others who have talent alone.
~John C Maxwell

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If I have the choice between experience and talent, I’m taking talent every time.
~John Calipari

When you have to make a choice between capacity and capability, I would go with capability.
~Joseph Dunford

My generation, faced as it grew with a choice between religious belief and existential despair, chose marijuana. Now we are in our Cabernet stage.
~Peggy Noonan

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Each choice we make causes a ripple effect in our lives. When things happen to us, it is the reaction we choose that can create the difference between the sorrows of our past and the joy in our future.
~Chelle Thompson

sorrow must not be cultivated: it is a poor lifestyle choice.
~Tarun J Tejpal

We choose our joys and sorrows long before we experience them.
~Khalil Gibran

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The power of choice. You have it. But you forfeit it when you imagine that you can choose for others. You can’t.
~Harry Browne

Because to take away a man’s freedom of choice, even his freedom to make the wrong choice, is to manipulate him as though he were a puppet and not a person.
~Madeleine L’Engle

Freedom of choice is more to be treasured than any possession earth can give.
~David O McKay

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Compassion does not just happen. Pity does, but compassion is not pity. It’s not a feeling. Compassion is a viewpoint, a way of life, a perspective, a habit that becomes a discipline ‒ and more than anything else, compassion is a choice we make that love is more important than comfort or convenience.
~Glennon Doyle Melton

To nourish the soul means to become kinder, more compassionate, wiser, and more loving, often through the making of difficult choices that foster growth rather than safety. The nourishment and growth of the soul is the very reason for human life.
~Joan Z Borysenko

The only things standing between you and the compassionate, wise, and creative person you want to be are matters of choice. Your choice. No one can occupy your generosity except you.
~Gary Zukav

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The essential conditions of everything you do must be choice, love, passion.
~Nadia Boulanger

There are three constants in life… change, choice and principles.
~Stephen Covey

The 3 C’s of Life: Choices, Chances and Changes. You must make a choice to take a chance or you will never change.
~Zig Ziglar

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Some choices we live not only once but a thousand times over, remembering them for the rest of our lives.
~Richard Bach

Choices are made in brief seconds and paid for in the time that remains.
~Paolo Giordano

Sometimes it is a good choice not to choose at all.
~Michel de Montaigne

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You have to make difficult choices in your life, and you just have to be happy with them.
~Lori Loughlin

Of the blessings set before you make your choice, and be content.
~Samuel Johnson

What happens if your choice is misguided,
You must try to correct it.
But what if it’s too late? What if you can’t?
Then you must find a way to live with it.
~Libba Bray

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The self is not something ready-made, but something in continuous formation through choice of action.
~John Dewey

One’s philosophy is not best expressed in words; it is expressed in the choices one makes… In the long run, we shape our lives and we shape ourselves. The process never ends until we die. And the choices we make are ultimately our responsibility.
~Eleanor Roosevelt

Good or bad, everything we do is our best choice at that moment.
~William Glasser

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I believe firmly that in making ethical decisions, man has the prerogative of true freedom of choice.
~Corliss Lamont

People of poor character tend to blame their choices on circumstances. Ethical people make good choices regardless of circumstances.
~John C Maxwell

It’s hard to regret making the choice that you think is right.
~Porter Robinson

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You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes.
You can steer yourself in any direction you choose.
You’re on your own. And you know what you know.
And YOU are the guy who’ll decide where to go.
~Dr Seuss

Choices, the greatest power we have,
Choices, the path which is destiny,
Choices, the result which is you…
~Joshua Fernandez

Our lives are fashioned by our choices. First we make our choices. Then our choices make us.
~Anne Frank

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Every individual is a meeting ground for many different allegiances, and sometimes these loyalties conflict with one another and confront the person who harbors them with difficult choices
~Amin Maalouf

Sometimes you have to choose between a bunch of wrong choices and no right ones. You just have to choose which wrong choices feels the least wrong.
~Colleen Hoover

Where there is no choice, we do well to make no difficulty.
~George MacDonald

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But difficult situations and wrong choices conspire to trap us in hopelessness.
~Judah Smith

Hope is a moral choice.
~Jim Yong Kim

No matter what, we always have the power to choose hope over despair, engagement over apathy, kindness over indifference, love over hate.
~Cory Booker

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Choices can change our lives profoundly. The choice to mend a broken relationship, to say “yes” to a difficult assignment, to lay aside some important work to play with a child, to visit some forgotten person–these small choices may affect many lives eternally.
~Gloria Gaither

You don’t choose because if you choose you might make the wrong choice, based upon ego or illusion. Instead, you let eternity make all the choices for you.
~Frederick Lenz

Choose well. Your choice is brief, and yet endless.
~Thomas Carlyle

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In the choice between changing ones mind and proving there’s no need to do so, most people get busy on the proof.
~John Kenneth Galbraith

Given a choice between their worldview and the facts, it’s always interesting how many people toss the facts.
~Rebecca Solnit

Eighty percent of all choices are based on fear. Most people don’t choose what they want; they choose what they think is safe.
~Dr Phil McGraw

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While we are free to choose our actions, we are not free to choose the consequences of our actions.
~Stephen R Covey

Choice of attention ‒ to pay attention to this and ignore that ‒ is to the inner life what choice of action is to the outer. In both cases, a man is responsible for his choice and must accept the consequences, whatever they may be.
~W H Auden

The difficulty in life is the choice.
~George Moore

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Posted From The Grove

It will be of little avail to the people that the laws are made by men of their own choice if the laws be so voluminous that they cannot be read, or so incoherent that they cannot be understood.
~James Madison

Today’s political leaders demonstrate their low opinion of the public with every social law they pass. They believe that, if given the right to chose, the citizenry will probably make the wrong choice. Legislators do not think any more in terms of persuading people; they feel the need to force their agenda on the public at the point of a bayonet and the barrel of a gun, in the name of the IRS, the SEC, the FDA, the DEA, the EPA, or a multitude of other ABCs of government authority.
~Mark Skousen

Greed, as law of the land, unaccountable without oversight, is more without conscience than lust.
~author unknown

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Before the boat docked, however, he confessed because he was contemplating running for president, he couldn’t separate from his wife. I believed him when he told me he faced a difficult choice between pursuing personal happiness and his political destiny.
~Donna Rice Hughes

I had to make a choice ‒ recede into the academic world, or wade into politics.
~Elizabeth Warren

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What we have found in this country, and maybe we’re more aware of it now, is one problem that we’ve had, even in the best of times, and that is the people who are sleeping on the grates, the homeless, you might say, by choice.
~Ronald Reagan

A truly moral nation enacts policies that encourage personal responsibility and discourage self-destructive behavior by not subsidizing people who live irresponsibly and make poor choices.
~Benjamin Carson

The nature of freedom of choice is that some people will misuse their responsibility and hurt themselves in the process. We should do our best to educate them, but without diminishing choice for everyone else.
~George McGovern

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No one will be forced to take the public option. The word option means choice.
~Valerie Jarrett

There is no such thing as freedom of choice unless there is freedom to refuse.
~David Hume

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A poor choice of words conveyed to some the impression that I embrace the discarded policies of the past. Nothing could be further from the truth, and I apologize to anyone who was offended by my statement.
~Trent Lott

I deeply regret using such a poor choice of words.
~Harry Reid

I am very sorry if I have caused any offence. It was a poor choice of costume.
~Prince Harry

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Fervor is the weapon of choice of the impotent.
~Frantz Fanon

I have several times made a poor choice by avoiding a necessary confrontation.
~John Cleese

When you have to make a choice and don’t make it, that is in itself a choice.
~William James

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Freedom of choice is more to be treasured than any possession earth can give.
~David O McKay

Under the big political umbrella, a man is just like a leaf in the ocean, with no control of his destiny and does not have any choice.
~Zhang Yimou

On this narrow planet, we have only the choice between two unknown worlds. One of them tempts us ‒ ah! what a dream, to live in that! ‒ the other stifles us at the first breath.
~Sidonie Gabrielle Colette

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Choice is a national instinct. This capitalist bedrock of our prosperity and security is threatened by a Labour Party that wants to overthrow the whole system.
~Liz Truss

Choice dependent on wealth; those are the Tory words.
~Tony Blair

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America has this fascination with glorifying the villain and not talking about the trials and tribulations. We tell the story of the successful villain a lot of times, but we don’t tell the story of the people who don’t come out so successful, and we don’t tell the story of all the bystanders of that choice.
~Lecrae

It was a very difficult choice ‒ to say, “We’re not going to hold senior officials to account with the same laws that every other citizen in the country is held to,” or “This is a nation that believes in the rule of law.”
~Edward Snowden

Our world is at the crossroads. We have a choice, right and wrong.
~LL Cool J

There’s a difference between being ignorant and being stupid… For me, an ignorant person is someone who makes the wrong decision or a bad choice because he or she does not have the proper facts. If you give that person the facts and the proper information you have alleviated that ignorance, and they make the right decision.
~Daryl Davis

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Patriotism is voluntary. It is a feeling of loyalty and allegiance that is the result of knowledge and belief. A patriot shows their their patriotism through their actions, by their choice.
~Jesse Ventura

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When certain causes become prairie fires, politicians make difficult choices, and often at the expense of someone like Jeremiah Wright and Walter Jenkins. That’s the cruel nature of American politics, where the end becomes the consummate objective, and sometimes the means to get there come at a great price.
~Bill Moyers

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When we outlaw child pornography, the prices paid for child performers rise, increasing the incentives for parents to use children against their will.
~Mary Ruwart

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Consumers have not been told effectively enough that they have huge power and that purchasing and shopping involve a moral choice.
~Anita Roddick

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In the final choice a soldier’s pack is not so heavy as a prisoner’s chains.
~Dwight D Eisenhower

If the choice were made, one for us to lose our sovereignty and become a member of the Commonwealth or remain with our sovereignty and lose the membership of the Commonwealth, I would say let the Commonwealth go.
~Robert Mugabe

Anytime I meet people who got to make the deliberate choice, whose parents choose Canada, I’m jealous. Because I think being able to choose it, rather than being Canadian by default, is an amazing statement of attachment to Canada.
~Justin Trudeau

My parents didn’t feel that they had any choice but to leave the Dominican Republic. They did, however, choose to become Americans, and they lived American values every day.
~Tom Perez (ex-Sec/Labor)

I am an American. I adore Britain and have a strong English half, but my roots are here in the U.S. ‒ it is not a matter of choice; it is simply fact.
~Jennifer Ehle

Most people who came here came for economic reasons or sometimes for religious or political reasons. I didn’t have any of this. I came here, I liked it, I stayed. So I’m a pure American ‒ even more than people who are born here ‒ because I did it by choice as an adult.
~Jacques Pepin

Be ready to protect me because I have chosen to obey your laws.
~Psalm 119:173

As a global community, we face a choice. Do we want migration to be a source of prosperity and international solidarity, or a byword for inhumanity and social friction?
~Antonio Guterres

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Isolated decisions, however well-founded they might seem to the individual, and national go-it-alone moves must belong to the past. They should not be the 21st-century method of choice, particularly because the consequences of the European community’s actions must often be carried collectively.
~Helmut Kohl

The dynamic of globalisation in financial and economic terms, but also in geopolitical terms, confronts Europeans with a stark choice: live together, share a common destiny and count in the world; or face the prospect of disunity and decline.
~Jose Manuel Barroso

We’re always going to argue about abortion. It’s a hard choice and it’s controversial, and that’s why I’m pro-choice, because I want people to make their own choices.
~Hillary Clinton

I hate abortions, but just could not make that choice for someone else.
~Barbara Bush

I’m against abortion. On the other hand, I believe in a woman’s choice.
~Nancy Reagan

The Universal Declaration of Human Rights describes the family as the natural and fundamental unit of society. It follows that any choice and decision with regard to the size of the family must irrevocably rest with the family itself, and cannot be made by anyone else.
~Garrett Hardin

However much I dislike the idea of abortion, you should not criminalize a woman who, in very difficult circumstances, makes that choice.
~Tony Blair

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It’s not your body, it’s not your choice, because you got that from God. He gave that to you.
~Norma McCorvey

There are young people having babies every day that cannot possibly take care of them, and, as people who believe that every life is beautiful, we need to make them aware of another choice ‒ to give that beautiful life up for adoption.
~John Schneider

The option to freeze one’s eggs is just about the most empowering choice a single woman who knows she wants to be a mother can make.
~Faith Salie

If a woman makes a unilateral decision to bring pregnancy to term, and the biological father does not, and cannot, share in this decision, he should not be liable for 21 years of support… autonomous women making independent decisions about their lives should not expect men to finance their choice.
~Karen DeCrow

The sons of Judah have to choose that God may again choose them. The divine principle of our race is action, choice, resolved memory.
~George Eliot

As long as the Palestinians send terrorists onto school buses and to nightclubs to blow up people, Israel has no choice but to build the fence.
~Chuck Schumer

When you deprive people of their right to live in dignity, to hope for a better future, to have control over their lives, when you deprive them of that choice, then you expect them to fight for these rights.
~Queen Rania of Jordan

The time comes in the life of any nation when there remains only two choices ‒ submit or fight.
~Nelson Mandela

I remember the day Ukraine became independent. I was 20; now I am over 40… I know better than anyone: no fight, no win.
~Vitali Klitschko

I demolish my bridges behind me ‒ then there is no choice but forward.
~Fridtjof Nansen

Here is no choice but either do or die.
~William Wallace (Braveheart of Scotland)

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All too often arrogance accompanies strength, and we must never assume that justice is on the side of the strong. The use of power must always be accompanied by moral choice.
~Theodore Bikel

Politics is tricky; it cuts both ways. Every time you make a choice, it has unintended consequences.
~Stone Gossard

There is no meeting of minds, no point of understanding with such terror. Just a choice: Defeat it or be defeated by it. And defeat it we must.
~Tony Blair

Torture is an impermissible evil. Except under two circumstances. The first is the ticking time bomb. An innocent’s life is at stake. The bad guy you have captured possesses information that could save this life. He refuses to divulge. In such a case, the choice is easy.
~Charles Krauthammer

We are all ready to be savage in some cause. The difference between a good man and a bad one is the choice of the cause.
~William James

Experience shows that the reliance on illegal, immoral, and inhumane interrogation techniques is universally a very poor choice.
~Peter Maurer

Anyone who thinks that the vice-president can take a position independent of the president of his administration simply has no knowledge of politics or government. You are his choice in a political marriage, and he expects your absolute loyalty.
~Hubert H Humphrey

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Obama is making a choice now that will lead to the deaths of many thousands of civilians in Afghanistan by American hands. By ordinary standards of presidents, he is a decent man. But those standards aren’t good enough. He’s in a position either to kill or not to kill, and he’s made the decision to kill.
~Daniel Ellsberg

The conduct of President Bush’s war of choice has been plagued with incompetent civilian leadership decisions that have cost many lives and rendered the war on and occupation of Iraq a strategic policy disaster for the United States.
~John Olver

In responding to a terrorist attack, there are only two choices ‒ take the fight to the enemy or wait until they hit you again. In my estimation, America chose the first.
~Kay Granger

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Drones can be a highly effective way of dealing with high-priority targets, but they should not become the drug of choice for an administration that is afraid to use successful, legal and safe tactics of the past.
~Jose Rodriguez

Responsible statesmen have only one choice ‒ to do everything possible to prevent a nuclear catastrophe. Any other position is short-sighted; more so, it is suicidal.
~Yuri Andropov

A man can’t be too careful in the choice of his enemies.
~Oscar Wilde

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Nations have recently been led to borrow billions for war; no nation has ever borrowed largely for education… no nation is rich enough to pay for both war and civilization. We must make our choice; we cannot have both.
~Abraham Flexner

It’s not a choice between war and peace. It’s a choice between war and endless war. It’s not appeasement. I think it’s better even to call it American self-interest.
~Michael Scheuer

The choice, however, is as clear now for nations as it was once for the individual: peace or extinction.
~Lester B Pearson

It cannot be so very surprising that I adopted a Communist viewpoint in the 1930s; so many of my contemporaries made the same choice. But many of those who made that choice in those days changed sides when some of the worst features of Stalinism became apparent. I stayed the course.
~Kim Philby

It’s sad. Marxism didn’t work. Communism didn’t work. Capitalism doesn’t work. Nothing works. Even democracy doesn’t work. Democracy-the greatest form of government and we have two choices for who’s our leader. In fascism you only have one choice. That’s great. We have one more choice than the worst form of government.
~Colin Quinn

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In America, through pressure of conformity, there is freedom of choice, but nothing to choose from.
~Peter Ustinov

The thing about American politics, as I’ve learned, is there is no choice.
~Rob Walton

I will offer a choice, not an echo.
~Barry Goldwater

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Up against the corporate government, voters find themselves asked to choose between look-alike candidates from two parties vying to see who takes the marching orders from their campaign paymasters and their future employers. The money of vested interest nullifies genuine voter choice and trust.
~Ralph Nader

I’m an independent. I’m a centrist. A new generation is arriving that has grown up with a multiplicity of choice in every aspect of their lives, and yet politics is the last place that they are told that they should be satisfied with a choice between brand A and brand B. It doesn’t fit the way they think. It doesn’t fit the way they live.
~John Avlon

I hate politics. It’s slimy. Any job where people pander for votes, I don’t like. The country has gotten so partisan that if you’re not on my side, you’re the enemy. The only thing I ever try to support is a third party… We need more parties and more choice.
~Mark Cuban

Actually, I believe there are more independents than either Republicans or Democrats, and yet those are the… that is the choice we have on the party ballot.
~Gloria Steinem

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Ranked Choice Voting is simple, empowers voters, and rewards candidates who broaden support beyond their base.
~Dean Phillips

With ranked choice voting, every vote matters more than ever before, and it matters to every single candidate.
~Ritchie Torres

The range of choice open to the individual is not the decisive factor in determining the degree of human freedom, but what can be chosen and what is chosen by the individual.
~Herbert Marcuse

To say that any people are not fit for freedom, is to make poverty their choice, and to say they had rather be loaded with taxes than not.
~Thomas Paine

Every family should have the right to spend their money, after tax, as they wish, and not as the government dictates. Let us extend choice, extend the will to choose and the chance to choose.
~Margaret Thatcher

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When I think about voting, I can skip it and still see myself as a good citizen. But when I think about being a voter, now the choice reflects on my character. It casts a shadow.
~Adam Grant

Choice is strength. Having choice is also freedom.
~Coulter Watt

The entire world depends upon our individual choices.
~Duane Elgin

We had our chance, we made our choice, but history hasn’t voted yet.
~author unknown

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I trust Canadians to be able to look at the different parties, the different leaders, the plans, the teams, and make a responsible choice. And I’m very, very confident that’s exactly what Canadians are going to do.
~Justin Trudeau

Anywhere, anytime ordinary people are given the chance to choose, the choice is the same: freedom, not tyranny; democracy, not dictatorship; the rule of law, not the rule of the secret police.
~Tony Blair

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I don’t believe in good human beings, but I believe you can have structures that make it easier to make the right choice or the wrong choice.
~Justin Welby

We are not animals. We are not a product of what has happened to us in our past. We have the power of choice.
~Stephen Covey

On a planet that increasingly resembles one huge Maximum Security prison, the only intelligent choice is to plan a jail break.
~Robert Anton Wilson

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Now you have a choice: we can give more tax breaks to corporations that ship jobs overseas, or we can start rewarding companies that open new plants and train new workers and create new jobs here, in the United States of America.
~Barack Obama

Smart people make good choices. They dig science and say ‘no’ to the invasion of sovereign nations for the pleasure of corporations.
~Henry Rollins

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If social stability goes pear-shaped, you have a choice between anarchy and dictatorship. Most people will opt for more security, even if they have to give up some personal freedom.
~Margaret Atwood

Confronted with the choice, the American people would choose the policeman’s truncheon over the anarchist’s bomb.
~Spiro T Agnew

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So, I think even in Saudi Arabia there is movement. And we have to remember that over the years they’ve stabilized the oil price and that is tremendously important for the economies of the world. I think we have no choice but to work with the government of Saudi Arabia.
~Frank Carlucci

If we want Saudi Arabia to progress, we have no choice but to embrace change.
~Lubna Olayan

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Every day the choice between good and evil is presented to us in simple ways.
~William Edwyn Robert Sangster

The choice must always be made, if not one of the lesser evil, at least of the greater, not the perfect good.
~James Madison

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There are two primary choices in life; to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them.
~Denis Waitley

Knowing that you’re choosing all your actions brings clarity, responsibility, and accountability to your life.
~Madonna Gauding

Inaction is also a decision, a policy with consequence. The wish to keep out of it all is entirely understandable, but it is every bit as much a decision as acting.
~Tony Blair

The history of free men is never really written by chance but by their choice—their choice.
~Dwight Eisenhower

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It’s choice‒not chance‒that determines your destiny.
~Jean Nidetch

Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.
~William Jennings Bryan

I can control my destiny, but not my fate. Destiny means there are opportunities to turn right or left, but fate is a one-way street. I believe we all have the choice as to whether we fulfill our destiny, but our fate is sealed.
~Paulo Coelho

Every choice you make has an end result.
~Zig Ziglar

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The problem is neutrality ends in poverty, neutrality ends in choices that hurt people’s lives. This administration is deliberately telling organizations that are there to help young girls make good choices, not to tell them what the good choice is. That is absolutely unconscionable.
~Rick Santorum

As a liberal, I would hesitate to propose a blanket ban on any style of dress because of the implications for individual liberty and freedom of choice.
~Richard Dawkins

As a global society, we do not have to agree, endorse or condone the lifestyle choices of others. However, history has taught us that we equally cannot and should not excuse those who would hide behind religion or misuse God’s word to justify bigotry and persecution.
~Joyce Meyer

I also believe that government has no business telling us how we should live our lives. I think our lifestyle choices should be left up to us. What we do in our private lives is none of the government’s business.
~Jesse Ventura

If you believe in equality, if you believe in standing up for the rights of all, especially for people most affected by bigotry and discrimination, then you have no choice but to be present and accounted for when it comes to standing up for gays and lesbians in our society.
~Michael Moore

If you want to believe that the government’s coming for our guns or that being gay is a choice and a sin or that ObamaCare signals the end of civilization or that cutting taxes for rich people is the path to a better America, that’s your choice. I’m never going to believe in any of that.
~James Carville

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Liberty, according to my metaphysics is a self-determining power in an intellectual agent. It implies thought and choice and power.
~John Adams

In this country, we believe in personal choice and individual liberty.
~Bill Hagerty

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Freedom is not merely the opportunity to do as one pleases; neither is it merely the opportunity to choose between set alternatives. Freedom is, first of all, the chance to formulate the available choices, to argue over them — and then, the opportunity to choose.
~C Wright Mills

I’ve come to realize that protecting freedom of choice in our everyday lives is essential to maintaining a healthy civil society.
~George McGovern

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If you were given only one choice: To choose or not to choose, which would you choose
~Dr Shad Helmstetter

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Economics is a choice between alternatives all the time. Those are the trade-offs.
~Paul Samuelson

You have to do things right to stay in business, and that’s not easy, and that’s a choice on a daily basis, the choices you make in how to run your business and how to have a point of differentiation and how to be true to your brand, how to offer something that people want and to offer something that you love.
~Venus Williams

Success is ultimately realized by people who make more good choices and recover quickly from their bad choices. Our personal and professional success depends on repeating good choices, day in and day out, and avoiding repetition of bad choices.
~David Cottrell

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Leadership is a choice, not a position.
~Stephen Covey

Unfortunately, to succeed in business, organizations need to make difficult choices all the time‒what to do and, more important, what not to do. The truth of the matter is that whenever we make a difficult choice, some people will win and some will lose. The winners will be happy and the losers unhappy. It’s impossible to make everybody happy all the time. If everybody in your organization is happy, that may be because you’re failing to lead them.
~Constantinos C Markides

Mostly, the best way to be the next Mark Zuckerberg is to make difficult choices.
~Seth Godin

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The difference between management and administration (which is what bureaucrats used to do exclusively) is the difference between choice and rigidity.
~Robert Heller

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Every Morning You Have Two Choices: Continue To Sleep With Your Dreams, Or Wake Up and Chase Them.
~Carmelo Anthony

I think the American Dream used to be achieving one’s goals in your field of choice ‒ and from that, all other things would follow. Now, I think the dream has morphed into the pursuit of money: Accumulate enough of it, and the rest will follow.
~Buzz Aldrin

That is where the power, opportunity, and choice come from‒when you have money. Money equals opportunity. There is no question.
~Billie Jean King

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Any customer can have a car painted any color that he wants as long as it’s black.
~Henry Ford

White shall not neutralize the black nor good
Compensate bad in man, absolve him so:
Life’s business being just the terrible choice.
~Robert Browning

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If you stop where you are,
you’ll die where you stand
Those choices you make
—to forever command.
~Kurt Philip Behm

There are no easy choices. Easy choices are long gone.
~Alan Greenspan

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The amount of money currently in your bank account is a fact. The amount you spend today is a choice. And the way you reconcile both is through clarity.
~Sarah Ban Breathnach

The hardest hit, as everywhere, are those who have no choice.
~Theodor W Adorno

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For an investment banker, the a payment that doubles with every square on the chessboard and one that doubles with every other square is more important than any other part of the contract. Who cares whether the payment is in pennies, pounds, or pesos?
~Paul Romer

The power of conscious choice is your profit-earning capital
Pay attention! Watch over that moment of power.
~Jalaluddin Rumi

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You have two choices: You can make a living, or you can design a life.
~Jim Rohn

The minute you decide to do what you love to do, you have made a life plan for yourself and a career choice.
~Huda Kattan

If you’re early on in your career and they give you a a great mentor or higher pay, take the mentor every time. It’s not even close. And don’t even think about leaving that mentor until your learning curve peaks.
~Stanley Druckenmiller

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Work ethic is important because, unlike intelligence, athleticism, charisma, or any other natural attribute, it’s a choice.
~Mike Rowe

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Some of our important choices have a time line. If we delay a decision, the opportunity is gone forever. Sometimes our doubts keep us from making a choice that involves change. Thus an opportunity may be missed.
~James E Faust

Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.
~Viktor E Frankl

Don’t look too far into the future, just look at tomorrow. One day at a time. Can you win tomorrow? Can you make progress? The answer is yes, you have a choice and tomorrow you’re going to win.
~Joe Wicks

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To me, success is choice and opportunity.
~Harrison Ford

I left Goldman Sachs. I was thinking about going to another Wall Street place. I didn’t want to do that. That was crazy. After you work on Wall Street, it’s a choice: would you rather work at McDonald’s or on the sell side? I would choose McDonald’s over the sell side.
~David Tepper

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If you look across the economy, if you have multiple players in an industry, you have more customization, more innovation, greater choice for consumers. The more you have consolidation, the less likely you are to invest in innovation. It becomes all about driving down cost and mass production. And that’s not good for innovation in an industry.
~Ro Khanna

Right to Work laws give workers a choice. Choice creates competition and competition breeds success. Forced unionization creates a monopoly, which only leads to stagnation.
~Tommy Tuberville

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Many kids turn to selling drugs. It’s not a good career choice, but they see it as a way to get money.
~Richard Harris

Bringing in innovation and youth is not a bad thing: it is a courageous choice.
~Paolo Maldini (Italian footballer/exec)

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Often, farmers have difficulty finding secondary markets for their outgrades and have no choice but to leave fresh produce unharvested to rot in the field. Gleaning Network U.K. coordinates teams of volunteers with willing farmers across the U.K. to direct this fresh surplus produce to charities that redistribute it to people that need it most.
~Tristram Stuart

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We have such an embarrassment of riches when it comes to choice. Do you want to hike in the Alps? There are 300 pairs of shoes you can order within the next 10 minutes. You have your choice of everything.
~Nick Offerman

That was my major reason for believing his candidacy was a good thing. However, I don’t endorse candidates, given the type of work that I do. My job is to hold people accountable.
~Tavis Smiley

If I had my choice I would kill every reporter in the world, but I am sure we would be getting reports from Hell before breakfast.
~William Tecumseh Sherman

If people who cherish freedom, who know the importance of mutual respect and are aware of the imperative necessity to establish a constructive and critical debate, if these people are not ready to speak out, to be more committed and visible, then we can expect sad, painful tomorrows. The choice is ours.
~Tariq Ramadan

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Our mission is to report these horrors of war with accuracy and without prejudice. We always have to ask ourselves whether the level of risk is worth the story. What is bravery, and what is bravado? Journalists covering combat shoulder great responsibilities and face difficult choices. Sometimes they pay the ultimate price.
~Marie Colvin

Let bravery be thy choice, but not bravado.
~Menander

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The telephone lets anybody say what he wants to the person of his choice; he can conduct business, express love, or pick a quarrel. It is impossible for bureaucrats to define what people say to each other on the phone, even though they can interfere with ‒ or protect ‒ the privacy of their exchange.
~Ivan Illich

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A journalist is supposed to present an unbiased portrait of an event, a view devoid of intimate emotions. This is impossible, of course. The framing of an image, by its very composition, represents a choice. The photographer chooses what to show and what to exclude.
~Alexandra Kerry

Submitting to censorship is to enter the seductive world of ‘The Giver‘: the world where there are no bad words and no bad deeds. But it is also the world where choice has been taken away and reality distorted. And that is the most dangerous world of all.
~Lois Lowry

From the beginning, Mandela and Tambo was besieged with clients. We were not the only African lawyers in South Africa, but we were the only firm of African lawyers. For Africans, we were the firm of first choice and last resort.
~Nelson Mandela

People of African descent, most of us grew up accepting and loving Spider-Man. I still love Spider-Man. I still love the Incredible Hulk. I still have those characters that were white role models, superheroes, heroes ‒ whatever you want to call it. You basically had no choice but to accept those.
~Chadwick Boseman (Black Panther)

There came a point when I wanted to do television, and I didn’t think the Afro was going to play, so I made a very difficult choice ‒ to straighten my hair.
~Jami Floyd (attorney/journalist)

Make a choice: continue living your life feeling muddled in this abyss of self-misunderstanding, or you find your identity independent of it. You push for colour-blind casting; you draw your own box. You introduce yourself as who you are, not what colour your parents happen to be.
~Meghan Markle

Integration is a man’s ability to want to move in there by himself. If someone wants to live in a white neighborhood and he is black, that is his choice. It should be his rights. It is not because white people will not allow him.
~Stokely Carmichael

Black people are not a monolith. Black people have different thoughts. And sometimes people just need to hear the harsh truth ‒ even myself. But you can’t manufacture a hard truth and place it on somebody. When Kanye says slavery was a choice, that’s not a harsh truth.
~JPEGMAFIA

You have no choices about how you lose, but you do have a choice about how you come back and prepare to win again.
~Pat Riley (NBA coach)

We set up a situation and let you interact with it and see the consequences of your choice. That’s what gaming does.
~Warren Spector (game designer)

People just need to be open-minded enough to accept the game for what it is. If you don’t want to see it, then you’re never going to appreciate it, which is fine; it’s your choice.
~Millie Bright (soccer)

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People who make the choice to study, work hard or do whatever they endeavor is to give it the max on themselves to reach to the top level. And you have the people who get envy and jealous, yet are not willing to put that work in, and they want to get the same praise.
~Evander Holyfield (WBA)

I’m as much of a human being as the rest of the world. But if I don’t train, I don’t win. If I don’t focus, I don’t win. So I don’t have a choice: I just have to run.
~Mo Farah (distance runner)

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If you want someone to show up and help you if something bad happens, you’d better tell someone where you’re going. And of course I wanted someone to know ‒ but I’d made a choice and it was a choice I was going to have to live with.
~Aron Ralston (mountaineer)

We are a religious family. My mum still goes to church every Sunday. There was a time when I was younger when I started getting games on a Sunday, so it came down to a choice between going to church and playing football. I think my mum knew what I really loved, and she did not stop me from going to football.
~Danny Welbeck

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Once you declare your loyalty to a team, every person who doesn’t support that team, it’s their job to ruin you, to tell you you’re an idiot and to tell you that you made the wrong choice.
~Mark Hoppus

If you’re a sports fan you realize that when you meet somebody, like a girlfriend, they kind of have to root for your team. They don’t have a choice.
~Jimmy Fallon

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If you’d given me the choice of going out and beating four men and smashing a goal in from thirty yards against Liverpool or going to bed with Miss World, it would have been a difficult choice. Luckily, I had both.
~George Best

How do you want to live your life? How do you want to play the game? Do you want to play in the big leagues or in the little leagues, in the majors or the minors? Are you going to play big or play small? It’s your choice.
~T Harv Eker

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For me, it was a choice between band and drama ‒ and I hated the band teacher.
~Lucy Deakins (actress/lawyer)

Being traditional is a choice for me. South Indian families bring up their children with a sense of freedom, self-respect and self-value. We do whatever we have to with earnestness and honesty, including being uninhibited. Yet we hold onto our roots.
~Vidya Balan (Hindi actress)

I was a very shy and quiet person growing up, so it was just really difficult getting up on a stage. It was a perverse career choice really.
~Ardal O’Hanlon

You know, young actors say all the time, ‘Should I use my own life experience?’ And my response is, ‘What choice do you have?’
~David Mamet

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Every choice you make as an actor ends up being really influential on your life, because you’re spending a lot of time working on this project, and you want to make sure you’re making good choices and you’re not making them for the wrong reasons. I just want to be careful and not jump into anything.
~Michael Cera

I’ve seen many actors go awry by making the wrong choices early on.
~Rose McGowan

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I generally play villains once every three or four years by choice because I get offered villainous roles a lot, because of the way I look and whatever. And I tend to avoid them because I think you can end up in a cul-de-sac of your own making if you’re cast in that.
~Kevin McKidd

When I first got to New York, all I did was musicals. After a few years I had to make a conscious choice to close the door on musicals, because I was getting pigeon-holed as a musical theater performer.
~Tamara Tunie

There are things that I would avoid, so I have the choice to say no, when I feel I’m repeating myself too much. But then there could be a reason to do that with a good director. So I think actors have to have a loose philosophy.
~Toby Jones

Nawazuddin Siddiqui is the best actor because his choice of roles are so diametrically opposite from each other, and he pulls it off almost every time so convincingly.
~Sushant Singh Rajput

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I enjoy some physical stuff. But if I had a choice between playing a scene where it’s raining, it’s terribly cold, I’m wet and I’m being drowned and playing a scene with dinosaur eggs in a laboratory, I’d probably take the latter. It’s warmer and generally more comfortable!
~Sam Neill

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If you had asked me back in grade school what I wanted to be when I grew up, I would have said my first choice was an actor, but if I couldn’t be that, I’d want to be a superhero.
~Vin Diesel

It was not really a career choice that I had to make. It was something I knew right from the beginning. I had to be an actress… period.
~Christine Lahti

There I was as a kid: a closeted homosexual who wants to be an actress. I had no choice! Wanting to act was something I was wired with when I was born. I never thought I would have success or celebrity, although I did want that. But what I wanted more than anything was to work.
~Jane Lynch

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When you receive a script and it leaps out at you and it’s breathing with its own heartbeat ‒ I suppose when you read something like that it’s not a choice of whether you do it or don’t. It feels like it chooses you, so you just do it.
~Sarah Lancashire

Acting is a mix of luck and choice. I got lucky.
~John Travolta

It seems to me that everything that happens to us is a disconcerting mix of choice and contingency.
~Penelope Lively (British writer)

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I always liked the visuals to be choice and at the same time minimalist. And, I love black boxes. After all, that’s what theatre is, it’s an empty space, and it’s both limited and unlimited because the space is the space, but what you can do with people’s imaginations is really endless.
~Harold Prince

Every television show you go on is a choice.
~Joan Rivers

The truth is often terrifying, which I think is one of the motifs of Larry and Andrew’s cinema. The cost of knowledge is an important theme. In the second and third films, they explore the consequences of Neo’s choice to know the truth. It’s a beautiful, beautiful story.
~Keanu Reeves

I always find myself gravitating to the analogy of a maze. Think of film noir and if you picture the story as a maze, you don’t want to be hanging above the maze watching the characters make the wrong choices because it’s frustrating. You actually want to be in the maze with them, making the turns at their side, that keeps it more exciting…I quite like to be in that maze.
~Christopher Nolan

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You have to edit the material. That assumes that some kind of a mind is operating in relation to the material. Not all minds are the same. Every aspect of filmmaking requires choice. The selection of the subject, the shooting, editing and length are all aspects of choice.
~Frederick Wiseman

The first assistant director is just so important that the choice of that person is critical to the movie.
~John Frankenheimer

I feel every shot, every camera move, every frame, and the way you frame something and the choice of lens, I see all those things are really important on every shot.
~Roger Deakins

Every adaptation requires that the screenwriter make difficult choices ‒ and in particular, difficult cuts.
~David Benioff

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Artists are losing the choice to use film. People have a love for it ‒ the grain, how it feels, the texture… I think ‒ I don’t know, maybe it’s nostalgia. But the choice, losing the choice to be able to use film is going to be ‒ it’s gone. It’s going to be gone.
~Keanu Reeves

I’m very happy where 3-D is going, which is that it’s becoming a choice ‒ and thankfully, most people are still choosing 2-D.
~Christopher Nolan

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When I’m doing a movie, I’m not doing anything else. It’s all about the movie. I don’t have a wife. I don’t have a kid. Nothing can get in my way… I’ve made a choice, so far, to go on this road alone. Because this is my time. This is my time to make movies.
~Quentin Tarantino

The paranormal bad boy is usually a fiercely loyal partner for the heroine. Once his sights are set on her, he doesn’t notice other women, and he’s utterly unconcerned with what anyone else thinks of his choice.
~Jeaniene Frost

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NC-17 means that you get it in like 3 theaters. They won’t run the spots on MTV, won’t run the advertising. It’s the kiss of death so there was really no other choice.
~Rob Zombie

You’ve got a movie where the pro-choice family gives their daughter no choice. The pro-life family murders. What seems to be the good mother, the kind of hippie painter, sweet and cute mother has no love for her daughter really.
~Ellen Barkin

I like the variety. But basically my choice of films is a small intimate film. Quiet film, no action, just people in relationships. That’s what I like the most.
~Jerry Goldsmith

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~Kate Enge: Choice Reaction (4:52) child custody choice, with tears

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~Matthew Macar: Choice (6:10) androids: with choice, or not

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~Omeleto: A Matter Of Choice (14:31) life, an option

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Omeleto: Choices (17:28) abortion, it’s complicated

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~,KIS KIS: Dilemma (10:02) a choice to be made

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What is portraiture? It’s choice. It’s the ability to position your body in the world for the world to celebrate you on your own terms.
~Kehinde Wiley

Sepia in particular tends to make everything look a bit romantic and almost sentimental, hence the fact that it remains such a popular choice for wedding photographs.
~Martin Parr

Camera lies all the time. It’s all it does is lie, because when you choose this moment instead of this moment, when you… the moment you’ve made a choice, you’re lying about something larger. ‘Lying’ is an ugly word. I don’t mean lying. But any artist picks and chooses what they want to paint or write about or say. Photographers are the same.
~Richard Avedon

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When I look at a body it gives me choice of what to put in a painting, what will suit me and what won’t.
~Lucian Freud

Painting is about the world that we live in. Black men live in the world. My choice is to include them.
~Kehinde Wiley

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Given the choice between instant gratification and the lasting satisfaction of earning the esteem of someone you respect and admire, all but the most small-minded would choose the latter.
~Mark Goulston

I always look at actresses who I most respect, and they make me think that you can make a choice in life. It’s whether or not you choose to go down the route of publicising your personal life. I choose not to.
~Vanessa Kirb

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No matter what your choices are, you truly have no control about what people think of you.
~Neve Campbell

If every choice you make comes from an honest place, you’re solid, and nothing anybody can say about you can rock you or change your opinion.
~Angelina Jolie

Nothing that you do will ever feel good if you let people convince you that you have no choice.
~Fiona Apple

Make your important choices in life based on your values and your long-term objectives rather than on a need for approval… I make my own choices. I decide what I will and will not do. I am proud of my independence.
~Jonathan Lockwood Huie

I don’t want everyone to like me, and I don’t choose who likes me. You have to give them the choice, give them the option.
~Jean Dujardin

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I have learned not to take too much notice of those who disapprove of my lifestyle choices, because I know that I was not designed to be part of the crowd. If I am different, I make no apology, and I hope that others will have the courage to be themselves and stand up for what they believe in, fight for those who need protection, love who they want to love, and be proud of it.
~Clare Balding

There’s not really a choice about, am I going to pursue a typical career? Because I’m not the typical standard, so that’s not even an option.
~America Ferrera

You have two choices in life ‒ you can dissolve into the main stream or you can be distinct. To be distinct, you must be different. To be different you must strive to be what no one else but you can be. Don’t be so concerned with the opinions of others; those who follow the quiet, creative voice from within are both fortunate and correct.
~Bob Proctor

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When you are ten years old and people are screaming your name, trying to grab you at the Kids Choice Awards, and you go to the mall and groups of girls start following you around, it’s very unreal and like a dream. I can’t say I get used to it, it’s always been a little freaky.
~Aidan Gallagher

Child stars have nothing. They have no choice.
~Corey Feldman

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I find it interesting where grunge originated from and then where it was taken, which was high fashion. My dad [Kurt] was so poor that they kept going to Goodwill to get donated ripped jeans. It wasn’t a fashion decision; it was an ‘I don’t have any money, I have no other choice’ type of decision.
~Frances Bean Cobain

I have practically no private life. I’m already used to this and ready for it. Yes, sometimes it is hard, but it is the choice I made.
~Cristiano Ronaldo

My fancy dress costume of choice is… something 1920s or 30s, when there was still so much elegance and attention to detail. An excuse for ultimate dressing-up indulgence.
~Ellie Goulding

For 24 years of my adult life, by choice I weighed well over 200 pounds. I say ‘by choice’ because I have never ‘accidentally’ eaten anything, so when I choose to eat too much, I have chosen to weigh too much.
~Zig Ziglar

When I’ve lost weight, some fans get very upset because they want me to stay curvy. But my own self-worth and wellness regime has to do with my well-being and longevity, so if I make the choice to take care of myself, and the outcome is losing weight, it’s disappointing that there might be some backlash.
~Sara Ramirez

Fat loss is an all-out war. Give it 28 days ‒ only 28 days. Attack it with all you have. It’s not a lifestyle choice; it’s a battle. Lose fat and then get back into moderation. There’s another one for you: moderation. Revelation says it best: ‘You are lukewarm and I shall spit you out.’ Moderation is for sissies.
~Dan John

This is what people don’t understand: obesity is a symptom of poverty. It’s not a lifestyle choice where people are just eating and not exercising. It’s because kids ‒ and this is the problem with school lunch right now ‒ are getting sugar, fat, empty calories ‒ lots of calories ‒ but no nutrition.
~Tom Colicchio

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Anorexia is a real disease. The choice you do have is asking for help.
~Ginger Zee

The typical Western diet is the number-one cause of premature death and the number-one cause of disability. In other words, a long and healthy life is largely a matter of choice.
~Michael Greger

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If children have the ability to ignore all odds and percentages, then maybe we can all learn from them. When you think about it, what other choice is there but to hope? We have two options, medically and emotionally: give up, or Fight Like Hell.
~Lance Armstrong

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Before my accidents, there were ten thousands things I could do. I could spend the rest of my life dwelling on the things that I had lost, but instead I chose to focus on the nine thousand I still had left.
~W Mitchell

I often say now I don’t have any choice whether or not I have Parkinson’s, but surrounding that non-choice is a million other choices that I can make.
~Michael J Fox

So, we have choice, and sometimes it seems very hard, but the best way to heal physically or emotionally is to keep positive.
~Petra Nemcova

Talk with your doctor, make healthy lifestyle choices and most importantly, know your body ‒ as that can make all the difference in the world.
~Cynthia Nixon

People’s choice to become vegan, from people I’ve spoken to, seems motivated by fear.
~Anthony Bourdain

Being vegan truly is the secret to my life’s joy and peace. I feel physically and spiritually better than I could have ever imagined knowing that I am doing everything I can to reduce animal suffering with simple lifestyle choices like being vegan, never wearing any products made from animals (like wool and leather), and buying only from companies that NEVER test their products or ingredients on animals.
~Alicia Silverstone

These days, I’m a hypocritical, philosophical vegetarian. Vegetarianism would be the right choice, but I really, really love meat.
~Tim Minchin

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Whether one eats a cat or not is a personal choice, and I don’t want to sway anyone one way or another. But if you do, there is one obvious cooking tip: Always remember to remove the bell from the cat’s collar before cooking.
~Mike Royko

If I had the smoked salmon and tinned salmon, I’d have it tinned. With vinegar.
~Harold Wilson

The first step towards solving the omnivore’s dilemma is knowledge: eating with full consciousness. When that happens, I have a lot of confidence that people will make good choices.
~Michael Pollan

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I am a Gujarati by birth, but having spent most of the growing up years in Mumbai, I can eat all kinds of food, from pizza to Thai, but given a choice, I want to stick to Indian.
~Himesh Reshammiya

You’d have a hard time finding anything better than Barcelona for food, as far as being a hub. Given a Barcelona and San Sebastian to die in, I’d probably want to die in San Sebastian.
~Anthony Bourdain (@ge 61, Kaysersberg, France)

My favorite food from my homeland is Guinness. My second choice is Guinness. My third choice ‒ would have to be Guinness.
~Peter O’Toole

There’s going to be stress in life, but it’s your choice whether you let it affect you or not.
~Valerie Bertinelli

My message is that happiness is the first principle of life. But you must choose it. We all have pain, but suffering is a choice. You can be happier if you make some changes in your life.
~Alexandra Stoddard

Happiness is a choice that requires effort at times.
~Aeschylus

Whenever I’m asked about the greatest lesson I’ve learned, my response is, ‘Happiness is a choice I make.’
~Gabrielle Bernstein

Happiness is a choice, not a result. Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy. No person will make you happy unless you decide to be happy. Your happiness will not come to you. It can only come from you.
~Ralph Marston

What we call the secret of happiness is no more a secret than our willingness to choose life.
~Leo Buscaglia

I do believe in choice, the freedom of choice and carving out your own happiness.
~Sandra Bullock

I’ve realized that being happy is a choice. You never want to rub anybody the wrong way or not be fun to be around, but you have to be happy.
~Angelina Jolie

I think happiness is a choice. If you feel yourself being happy and can settle in to the life choices you make, then it’s great. It’s really, really great. I swear to God, happiness is the best makeup.
~Drew Barrymore

It is almost impossible for anyone, even the most ineffective among us, to continue to choose misery after becoming aware that it is a choice.
~William Glasser

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§ MUSIC:
As I grew up, I was interested in other areas, too, especially literature. It became a major love of mine. Later, it became a difficult choice for me as to whether to major in music or literature. It wasn’t until my 30s that I began a profession in music.
~Tom Glazer

I had no choice but to work hard. I was a straight-A student, went to college, and I loved business. I never thought I was going to be a singer myself. It came accidentally.
~Jenni Rivera

Music was always the distraction, so it was the obvious choice to pursue. My dad always said to find a job I love to do, that way it wouldn’t feel like a job. So I did that.
~Jason Mraz

Take care to do what you like or you will be forced to like what you do.
~George Bernard Shaw

Your talent is in your choice.
~Stella Adler

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Played percussively, the piano is a bore. If I go to a concert and someone plays like that I have two choices: go home or go to sleep. The goal is to make the piano sing, sing, sing.
~Vladimir Horowitz

I enjoy all aspects of singing and I’m luckily given the choice to be part of different styles of music.
~Bryn Terfel

I chose busking because I didn’t want to be working for someone else. I wanted to work as I am. I feel like you ultimately do have a choice if you have your vision. So, I had a vision forever that I was going to play music. And there was no stopping that.
~Tash Sultana

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Mexican music runs through my veins. I loved it. Growing up, my father didn’t allow us to listen to English music at home. That’s all I heard. I had no choice.
~Jenni Rivera

The one thing the blues don’t get is the backing and pushing of TV and radio like a lot of this garbage you hears. They choke stuff down people’s throat so they got no choice but to listen to it.
~John Lee Hooker

The people have allowed me to ‒ they’ve respected my choice of wanting to be like, a little, you know, a baby alchemist, and just trying to mix different cultures together and things that I think are interesting.
~Pharrell Williams

Without freedom of choice, there is no creativity. Without creativity, there is no life.
~Benjamin Spock

I think that our power of conscious origination is where free will comes in…We are originally choosing between the good and the less good, whether aware of it or not.
~Alfred North Whitehead

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You can’t make your choices based on what critics think. You have to make your choices based on what’s honest for you.
~Nicolas Cage

If your choice enters into it, then taste is involved ‒ bad taste, good taste, uninteresting taste. Taste is the enemy of art, A-R-T.
~Marcel Duchamp

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We must make the choices that enable us to fulfill the deepest capacities of our real selves.
~Thomas Merton

In Sliding Doors, the whole idea is that every choice you make, and every single thing that happens to you changes the trajectory of your life, and once you are put on that trajectory, there is no way back. But Groundhog Day ‒ which, I tell him, also happens to be a much better movie ‒ says the opposite. It says if you mess up or make the wrong choice, you just have to keep at it until you do it right.
~David Levithan

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Art is beauty, the perpetual invention of detail, the choice of words, the exquisite care of execution.
~Theophile Gautier

Excellence is never an accident. It is always the result of high intention, sincere effort, and intelligent execution; it represents the wise choice of many alternatives ‒ choice, not chance, determines your destiny.
~Aristotle

If you are born an artist, you have no choice but to fight to stay an artist.
~Lana Del Rey

You don’t decide to paint. It’s like getting hungry and going to the kitchen to eat. It’s a need, not a choice.
~Leonora Carrington

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I try to live my life where I end up at a point where I have no regrets. So I try to choose the road that I have the most passion on because then you can never really blame yourself for making the wrong choices. You can always say you’re following your passion.
~Darren Aronofsky

In the world of Art there are no wrong choices.
~Herbie Hancock

Art is not predictable. Art is not golf, as great as that may be. There are 360 degrees of choice to make.
~Tina Weymouth

Creative choice is your birthright. Please own it.
~John Bradshaw

What is portraiture? It’s choice. It’s the ability to position your body in the world for the world to celebrate you on your own terms.
~Kehinde Wiley

Sepia in particular tends to make everything look a bit romantic and almost sentimental, hence the fact that it remains such a popular choice for wedding photographs.
~Martin Parr

Camera lies all the time. It’s all it does is lie, because when you choose this moment instead of this moment, when you… the moment you’ve made a choice, you’re lying about something larger. ‘Lying’ is an ugly word. I don’t mean lying. But any artist picks and chooses what they want to paint or write about or say. Photographers are the same.
~Richard Avedon

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~Zac Efron: Ladies’ Choice (2:32) from “Hairspray

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~DEVO: Freedom of Choice (3:25) from skateboard face-off to donuts

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~Mandy Moore: Ladies Choice (7:14) no video, best audio, long version

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~Walther Fantola: K’s Choice • not an addict (4:50) evidence to the contrary

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~Happy Accident Productions: George Jones • Choices (3:26) country song about consequences

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~Sïan Able: The Choice Is Yours (4:14) Christian, interesting images for choice

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~Film 44: Eisfabrik • The Choice (4:49) concert footage, message music

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~EverHowtik: Jack Stauber • Choice (0:39) short, fan made, better because of it

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~TopPop: People’s Choice • Do It Any Way You Wanna (1975) music for the pleasure of making music

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~Choices: Less Is More (5:14) the message: we shared more when we had less, static image to a thumpin’ back beat, danceable

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~the quorum: Teddy Pendergrass • You’re My Choice Tonight (3:04) opening credits to a movie

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~Fatboy Slim: Bootsy Collins • Weapon Of Choice (3:45) hard to categorize, call it a surprise

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How many times have you said, ‘This is it. I’ve finally found my one true love’? And how many times has the reality turned out differently? Paperback romances and fairy tales promote an ideal of a first and only love, but few of us can claim to have had such uncomplicated good fortune… Human love is a fragile creation, and sometimes the smallest thing ‒ the wrong choice of words or a single clumsy gesture ‒ can make love shatter, stall or fade away.
~Haruki Murakami

Most women have jobs that require them to leave the house. A cat is actually a perfect pet. You get the love and companionship of a creature covered in fur, and you don’t have to take it for a walk, and it can feed itself. Less maintenance. Surely any man can appreciate the practicality of this choice.
~Iliza Shlesinger

Love is a commitment that will be tested in the most vulnerable areas of spirituality, a commitment that will force you to make some very difficult choices. It is a commitment that demands that you deal with your lust, your greed, your pride, your power, your desire to control, your temper, your patience, and every area of temptation that the Bible clearly talks about.
~Ravi Zacharias

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I’ll tell you this: Religion is far more of a choice than homosexuality. And the protections that we have, for religion ‒we protect religion‒ and talk about a lifestyle choice! That is absolutely a choice. Gay people don’t choose to be gay. At what age did you choose not to be gay?
~Jon Stewart

I don’t blame homosexuals for being angry when people say they’ve made a choice to be gay, because they don’t.
~James Dobson

I learned a lot more about transgender people. It’s not a choice, but a physiological condition that has to do with the size of the hypothalamus part of the brain.
~Mercedes Ruehl

Valentino was apparently gay or bisexual. And his two lesbian wives. But without any question, he had sex with men. From choice. So he was one or the other.
~Cesar Romero

Being gay is natural. Hating gay is a lifestyle choice.
~John Fugelsang

Choose your love, Love your choice.
~Thomas S Monson

Love is not in our choice but in our fate.
~John Dryden

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As soon as questions of will or decision or reason or choice of action arise, human science is at a loss.
~Noam Chomsky

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Choice means saying no to one thing so you can say yes to another.
~Dan Millman

Every act is an act of self-sacrifice. When you choose anything you reject everything else— just as when you marry one woman you give up all the others.
~G K Chesterton

Now we have two choices in life: have sex with the same person forever or risk a terminal disease. Either way, your life is over.
~Andy Kindler

For me working on the marriage and not making the easy choice of cheating was something that I could not do.
~Al Goldstein (either a pornographer, or CEO)

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I find the selectivity of erotic love ‒ the choice of this man or this woman ‒ much more intelligible if liking the person is the origin of sexual interest, rather than the other way.
~Mortimer Adler

Long-term relationships are an everyday choice. It’s harder to be in a marriage than it is to bounce from one relationship to the next.
~Pink

Love is a choice you make from moment to moment.
~Barbara De Angelis

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Well, my career choice made a difference because I never would have met my wife, Jenny. I met her through comedian Buddy Hackett. He set us up on a blind date and then we got married.
~Bob Newhart

Surely, marriage is throwing anchor and saying, ‘This is where I’m staying. I’ve made my choice, and this is all I want because I’ve been on the up and down escalator, through the revolving door, and I want to stand still.’
~Pete Burns

True love ‒ that is, deep, abiding love that is impervious to emotional whims or fancy ‒ is a choice. It’s a constant commitment to a person regardless of the present circumstances.
~Mark Manson

The real act of marriage takes place in the heart, not in the ballroom or church or synagogue. It’s a choice you make not just on your wedding day, but over and over again ‒ and that choice is reflected in the way you treat your husband or wife.
~Barbara De Angelis

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There’s just me and my wife and a dog and we feed him Healthy Choice also.
~Mike Ditka

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I’m pro responsible choice. You know, there is choice to abstain, choice to do contraception. There are all kinds of good choices.
~Sharron Angle

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Let’s suppose somebody abused you sexually. You still had a choice, though not a good one, about what to tell yourself about the abuse.
~Albert Ellis

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I suppose women are attracted to the bad-boy image sometimes because it’s fun to have an adventure. It’s like eating junk food… it’s fun at the time, but ultimately not the best choice.
~Dita Von Teese

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I like all types of women. I accept them as they are when they come into my life… But I’m not a romantic. I’m just up-front. I like to be a part of something real, not make-believe. I tell women to tell me the truth, to just lay it out. Let me be the judge and decide if I want you around or not. Let me have my choice.
~Future

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I chose and my world was shaken.
So what?
The choice may have been mistaken;
the choosing was not.
You have to move on.
~Stephen Sondheim

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I love being a wife and homemaker ‒ because it’s my choice. My husband doesn’t expect me to do it. I don’t mind doing things for him because he does so much for me; we both feel that way so there is no power struggle.
~Salma Hayek

And all the charms of face or voice
Which I in others see,
Are but the recollected choice
Of what I feel for thee.
~John Clare

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Ninety-nine percent of the world’s lovers are not with their first choice. That’s what makes the jukebox play.
~Willie Nelson

It is the parents duty to intervene when they see wrong choices being made.
~M Russell Ballard

Should kids check phones at dinner? I don’t know. To me, that’s a parenting choice.
~Sundar Pichai

I didn’t tell my kids, ‘You have to play viola, and you have to play piano.’ They chose these things on their own, and I don’t think we have to give kids every choice, but we do have to give them some choice because that autonomy is crucial for fostering passion.
~Angela Duckworth

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It’s immoral to parent irresponsibly… And it doesn’t help matters any when prime time tv, like “Murphy Brown“, a character who is supposed to represent a successful career woman of today, mocks the importance of the father by bearing a child alone, and calling it just another “lifestyle choice.” Marriage is probably the best anti-poverty program there is…
~Dan Quayle

A society that thinks the choice between ways of living is just a choice between equally eligible ‘lifestyles’ turns universities into academic cafeterias offering junk food for the mind
~George Will

Given the choice, children who don’t want for anything will not save… We have an obligation as parents to give our children what they need. What they want we can give them as a special gift, or they can save their money for it.
~Barbara Coloroso

The absence of doll babies in my toy chest didn’t seriously influence my later decision not to become a mother; rather, I disdained Hasbro’s Baby Alive wetting doll because I was already the kind of girl who would grow up to be childless by choice.
~Lionel Shriver (journalist)

I’ve had no contact with my daughter for years. That’s her choice. Anyway, you move on. If people don’t want to bother with me, fine. You know, God bless them, and move on.
~Anthony Hopkins

I’ve been writing the same book my whole life ‒ that you’re in one family, and all of a sudden, you’re in another family, and it’s not your choice, and you can’t get out.
~Ann Patchett

It wasn’t through choice that I became a mum at 36. I wanted to be a young mum but things never worked out for me.
~Denise Van Outen

My mother made a choice. And when I was younger, I judged her for making that choice. Then I got older and got to be an adult, and I realized that was the ultimate sacrifice that any parent and any mother could possibly make.
~Jose Antonio Vargas

Too often in life, something happens and we blame other people for us not being happy or satisfied or fulfilled. So the point is, we all have choices, and we make the choice to accept people or situations or to not accept situations.
~Tom Brady

Our family makes us who we are, defines us totally. When you go to a therapist or have analysis, whatever reason you go in for, they will always bring you back to your family. We’re strong or weak according to what family we have. You might have left them long ago, might not even talk to them, but something lingers; we have no choice.
~Sandrine Bonnaire

Chance makes our parents, but choice makes our friends.
~Jacques Delille

On the choice of friends,
Our good or evil name depends.
~John Gay

I choose my friends for their good looks, my acquaintances for their good characters, and my enemies for their intellects.
~Oscar Wilde

Be careful about the environment you choose for it shapes you; be careful about the friends you choose for you will become like them.
~W Clement Stone

True happiness consists not in the multitude of friends, but in the worth and choice.
~Ben Jonson

I’m surrounded by nothing but great people. I’ve been blessed with that, so really, I’ve got no choice but to be an all-around good person.
~Tim Duncan

Fear is at the root of so many of the barriers that women face. Fear of not being liked. Fear of making the wrong choice. Fear of drawing negative attention. Fear of overreaching. Fear of being judged. Fear of failure. And the holy trinity of fear: the fear of being a bad mother/wife/daughter.
~Sheryl Sandberg

Women now have choices. They can be married, not married, have a job, not have a job, be married with children, unmarried with children. Men have the same choice we’ve always had: work, or prison.
~Tim Allen

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I always feel that there are two choices for women. Either be totally confident about your non-size-zero body and say, ‘I love what I look like and this is who I am,’ or be the person who is obsessed with diet and exercise and keeping toned. What feels more realistic to me is that some days I wake up and think I love how I look. On other days I say, ‘If I had real self-control, I would be 10 pounds lighter.’ That contradiction is, to me, what being a girl actually feels like.
~Lena Dunham

God made a very obvious choice when he made me voluptuous; why would I go against what he decided for me? My limbs work, so I’m not going to complain about the way my body is shaped.
~Drew Barrymore

You can be a thousand different women. It’s your choice which one you want to be. It’s about freedom and sovereignty. You celebrate who you are. You say, ‘This is my kingdom.’
~Salma Hayek

I was intelligent enough to make up my own mind. I not only had freedom of choice, I had freedom of expression.
~Amy Tan

Women can be powerful, graceful, and complex, with the ability to make any choice they desire.
~Jessica Chastain

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When a man is shooting a handgun, it’s just like he is shooting because that’s his job, and he has no other choice. It’s no good. When a girl is shooting a handgun, it’s really something.
~Hayao Miyazaki

If I had a choice of educating my daughters or my sons because of opportunity constraints, I would choose to educate my daughters.
~Brigham Young

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I’m not saying a housewife is in any way inferior to a workingwoman. No, she isn’t. But as an activist, as a woman, I would say the choice of being a housewife or pursuing a career should be left entirely to the woman and that choice should be respected.
~Shabana Azmi

It is capitalist America that produced the modern independent woman. Never in history have women had more freedom of choice in regard to dress, behavior, career, and sexual orientation.
~Camille Paglia

A man is given the choice between loving women and understanding them.
~Ninon de L’Enclos (French author, courtesan, intellectual, 1620-1705)

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I think being funny is not anyone’s first choice.
~Woody Allen

Being funny wasn’t a career choice growing up, it was my way out of situations; a way to survive another day.
~Tracy Morgan

I’ve never set out to write a funny movie or be a funny comedian as a woman. I am a woman. I don’t really have a choice in the matter. My goal is just to be funny.
~Maya Rudolph

In life you have two choices. You can laugh or you can cry. You have to laugh, you have to.
~Mariska Hargitay

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Fate always gives you two choices, the one you should take, and the one you do.
~Gregory David Roberts

Yeah, I know, some people are against drunk driving, and I call those people ‘the cops.’ But you know, sometimes, you’ve just got no choice; those kids gotta get to school!
~Dave Attell

Once again, we come to the Holiday Season, a deeply religious time that each of us observes, in his own way, by going to the mall of his choice.
~Dave Barry

May the God of your choice bless and keep you. I respect Him as long as He does not circumcise me anymore.
~Kinky Friedman

I was destined to work with dying patients. I had no choice when I encountered my first AIDS patient. I felt called to travel some 250,000 miles each year to hold workshops that helped people cope with the most painful aspects of life, death and the transition between the two.
~Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

I was never afraid of failure after that because, I think, coming that close to death you get kissed. With the years, the actual experience of course fades, but the flavor of it doesn’t. I just had a real sense of what choice do I have but to live fully?
~Debra Winger

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If a man has wealth, he has to make a choice, because there is the money heaping up. He can keep it together in a bunch, and then leave it for others to administer after he is dead. Or he can get it into action and have fun, while he is still alive. I prefer getting it into action and adapting it to human needs, and making the plan work.
~George Eastman

Service to others seems the only intelligent choice for the use of wealth.
~Manoj Bhargava

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The quality of health care continues to improve, and people are living longer, but these developments mean that we’re likely to eventually find ourselves in a situation in which we’re forced to make difficult choices about our parents, other loved ones, or even ourselves that ultimately boil down to calculations of worth and value.
~Sheena Iyengar

Friendships in childhood are usually a matter of chance, whereas in adolescence they are most often a matter of choice.
~David Elkind

I think it’s your own choice if you turn from an angry young man to a bitter, old bastard.
~Billie Joe Armstrong

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This girl at 17 really led an army, this girl at 19 really burned at the stake by her own choice. And you sit there and you want to figure out why did she make these choices? How did she live such a life?
~Leelee Sobieski

I was 37 when my father died‒and I no longer had any freedom of choice over what I would do with the rest of my life.
~J Paul Getty

At fifteen life had taught me undeniably that surrender, in its place, was as honorable as resistance, especially if one had no choice.
~Maya Angelou

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I used to think that what scared me was the idea of being abandoned until someone said to me, ‘Only children can be abandoned. Adults can’t be abandoned because we have a choice. Children don’t have a choice.’
~Demi Moore

I had to make a choice at one point in my life, of missing films or missing my children. It was a very easy decision to make because I missed my children so very much.
~Audrey Hepburn

People from the most horrendous of childhoods can have good lives, but it comes down to a very seemingly simple word. ‘Choice.’
~Laura Schlessinger

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I don’t really have a choice. I’m getting older.
~Annette Bening

The need to make wise choices encompasses every area of our lives. Since we have time for only a limited amount of stuff, we need to choose wisely what stuff we’re going to allow to take up that time.
~Elaine St James

The ultimate goal is to be more satisfied. I really don’t believe you get wiser because you get older. It’s a choice, perhaps not to take some things so seriously.
~Boy George

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Choice is a form of compromise, no? So why choose if you can have both?
~Neri Oxman

Even children learn in growing up that ‘both’ is not an admissible answer to a choice of ‘Which one?’
~Paul A Samuelson

A man is too apt to forget that in this world he cannot have everything. A choice is all that is left him.
~Harry Mathews

Full maturity is achieved by realizing that you have choices to make.
~Angela Baron McBride

Was there ever in anyone’s life span a point free in time, devoid of memory, a night when choice was any more than the sum of all the choices gone before?
~Joan Didion

It only takes one mistake,’ the Dan Banyan guy says, ‘and nothing else you ever do will matter.’ With his empty hand, he takes one of my hands. His fingers feel hot, fever-hot, and pounding with his heartbeats. He turns my hand palm-up saying, ‘No matter how hard you work or how smart you become, you’ll always be known for that one poor choice.’ He sets the blue pill on my palm, saying, ‘Do that one wrong thing‒ and you’ll be dead for the rest of your life.
~Chuck Palahniuk

One day, we will look back and wonder how on earth we used to believe that depression was a lifestyle choice, only to be debated and taken seriously when an A List film star took his life, and the world filled with people saying how shocked and saddened they were.
~Alastair Campbell

One of my favorite movies of all time is ‘It’s A Wonderful Life,’ which is a pretty interesting choice for a seasonal Christmas favorite, because it’s about a guy who wants to commit suicide and is presented with reasons not to.
~Frank Darabont

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Suicide is a choice and I think if we work with that with kids, we’ll get somewhere.
~Peter Lynch

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Sometimes the wrong choice is the only one that lets you face the end with dignity, grace, and the awareness that you’re doing the right thing.
~Mira Grant

I’m for absolute autonomy of the individual, and an adult, competent woman has absolute autonomy. It’s her choice… All the big powers they’ve silenced me. So much for free speech and choice on this fundamental human right.
~Jack Kevorkian (euthanasia)

You have a choice. Live or die. Every breath is a choice. Every minute is a choice. To be or not to be.
~Chuck Palahniuk

No law can give or take away the choice to commit suicide.
~Maggie Gallagher

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Honorable Mentions: Choice Implied

We either make ourselves miserable or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same.
~Carlos Castaneda

Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
~Robert Frost

There’s still time to change the road you’re on…
~Robert Plant

A peacefulness follows any decision, even the wrong one.
~Rita Mae Brown

Once you make a decision, the universe conspires to make it happen.
~Ralph Waldo Emerson

Using the power of decision gives you the capacity to get past… any and every part of your life in an instant.
~Tony Robbins

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There is a time when we must firmly choose the course we will follow, or the relentless drift of events will make the decision.
~Herbert V Prochnow

In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.
~Theodore Roosevelt

We are given one life, and the decision is ours whether to wait for circumstances to make up your mind, or whether to act, and in acting, to live.
~Omar Nelson Bradley

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Every human has four endowments ‒ self awareness, conscience, independent will and creative imagination. These give us the ultimate human freedom… The power to choose, to respond, to change.
~Stephen Covey

We can complain because rose bushes have thorns, or rejoice because thorn bushes have roses.
~Abraham Lincoln

A real decision is measured by the fact that you’ve taken a new action. If there’s no action, you haven’t truly decided.
~Tony Robbins

Every man builds his world in his own image. He has the power to choose, but no power to escape the necessity of choice.
~Ayn Rand

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Choice of attention ‒ to pay attention to this and ignore that ‒ is to the inner life what choice of action is to the outer. In both cases, a man is responsible for his choice and must accept the consequences, whatever they may be.
~W H Auden


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Every choice moves us closer to or farther away from something. Where are your choices taking your life? What do your behaviors demonstrate that you are saying yes or no to in life
~Eric Allenbaugh


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The statement “I have no choice” is a lie. You can choose. You simply do not prefer the alternatives available to you, for whatever reason.
~Neale Donald Walsch


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If we really want to be full and generous in spirit, we have no choice but to trust at some level.
~Rita Dove


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Faced with the choice of enduring a bad toothache or going to the dentist, we generally tried to ride out the bad tooth.
~Joseph Barbera


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If you wish to achieve any success in this life, do your best to surround yourself with an orgy of good choices.
~Chris Hardwick


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The road, more than simply a system of regulations and designs, is a place where many millions of us, with only loose parameters for how to behave, are thrown together daily in a kind of massive petri dish in which all kinds of uncharted, little-understood dynamics are at work. There is no other place where so many people from different walks of life‒different ages, races, classes, religions, genders, political preferences, lifestyle choices, levels of psychological stability‒mingle so freely.
~Tom Vanderbilt


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With a labyrinth, you make a choice to go in ‒ and once you’ve chosen, around and around you go. But you always find your way to the center.
~Jeff Bridges


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Incontinence is not a vice for it is contrary to choice while vice flows from choice.
~Aristotle


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When making your choice in life, do not neglect to live.
~Samuel Johnson

Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.
~William Jennings Bryan

It’s choice‒not chance‒that determines your destiny.
~Jean Nidetch

I can control my destiny, but not my fate. Destiny means there are opportunities to turn right or left, but fate is a one-way street. I believe we all have the choice as to whether we fulfill our destiny, but our fate is sealed.
~Paulo Coelho

But you’ve got to make choices, and you’re not going to be right all the time.
~Earl Butz

The choices that we make aren’t always perfect but it’s ok… It’s part of the journey.
~Hayley Williams

Making mistakes is part of learning to choose well. No way around it. Choices are thrust upon us, and we don’t always get things right. Even postponing or avoiding a decision can become a choice that carries heavy consequences. Mistakes can be painful‒sometimes they cause irrevocable harm‒but welcome to Earth. Poor choices are part of growing up, and part of life. You will make bad choices, and you will be affected by the poor choices of others. We must rise above such things.
~Brandon Mull

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People will hurt you. But don’t use that as an excuse for your poor choices, use it as motivation to make the right ones.
~LeCrae

I get a choice every time I have to open my mouth: that it can be with civility and dignity and grace ‒ or not.
~Dana Perino

We have a choice about how we take what happens to us in our life and whether or not we allow it to turn us. We can become consumed by hate and darkness, or we’re able to regain our humanity somehow, or come to terms with things and learn something about ourselves.
~Angelina Jolie

Mindfulness gives you time. Time gives you choices. Choices, skillfully made, lead to freedom. You don’t have to be swept away by your feeling. You can respond with wisdom and kindness rather than habit and reactivity.
~Henepola Gunaratana

We almost always have choices, and the better the choice, the more we will be in control of our lives.
~William Glasser

Every life has a watershed moment, an instant when you realize you’re about to make a choice that will define everything else you ever do, and that if you choose wrong, there may not be that many things left to choose… I’m not sure we can recognize those moments until they’ve passed us.
~Mira Grant

Now I must live with the consequences of the choice I made. And I will not call it the wrong choice. That would be foolish and pointless. That choice led me to everything that has happened since, including this very moment… It is all a journey,
~Miss Jewell.

I have come to understand that that is what life is all about‒a journey and the courage and energy always to take the next step and the next without judgement about what was right and what was wrong.
~Mary Balogh

One choice can transform you.
One choice can destroy you.
Once choice will define you.
~Veronica Roth

No matter what choice you make, it doesn’t define you. Not forever. People can make bad choices and change their minds and hearts and do good things later; just as people can make good choices and then turn around and walk a bad path. No choice we make lasts our whole life.
~Jonathan Maberry

In every work out there comes a moment where you have to decide to keep pushing hard ‒ through the doubt, discomfort and fear of the pain. You have two choices at this point ‒ to push through and to mentally divorce your mind of the doubt, discomfort and fear or you can surrender.
~Lisa Rainsberger

Fear has never helped anybody make good choices. It leads to clinging when we should be walking.
~Harriet Lerner

Most of our decisions are driven by either love or fear. Figure out who’s doing the talking, then decide what you’ll do.
~Bob Goff

You are ready and able to do beautiful things in this world….you will only ever have two choices: love or fear. Choose love, and don’t ever let fear turn you against your playful heart.
~Jim Carrey

Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of human freedoms ‒ to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.
~Viktor E Frankl

I discovered I always have choices and sometimes it’s only a choice of attitude.
~Judith M Knowlton

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You have two choices: to control your mind or to let your mind control you.
~Paulo Coelho

The only thing you sometimes have control over is perspective. You don’t have control over your situation. But you have a choice about how you view it.
~Chris Pine

Every morning when I get up, the first thing I decide is: What do I want? Misery? Blisfullness? What am I going to choose today? And it happens that I always choose blissfulness. It is my choice, it is my life.
~Abdullah

We choose what attitudes we have right now. And it’s a continuing choice.
~John C Maxwell

Once you have started seeing the beauty of life, ugliness starts disappearing. If you start looking at life with joy, sadness starts disappearing. You cannot have heaven and hell together, you can have only one. It is your choice.
~Osho

Because with every action, comment, conversation, we have the choice to invite Heaven or Hell to Earth.
~Rob Bell

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The remarkable thing is, we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.
~Charles R Swindoll

Big things are built one brick at a time. Victories are achieved one choice at a time. A life well lived is chosen one day at a time.
~Lysa TerKeurst

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Pessimist: One who, when he has the choice of two evils, chooses both.
~Oscar Wilde

A positive attitude is a choice, like walking to the other side of a street to avoid trouble or making a 180-degree turn when you feel you’re heading in the wrong direction.
~Richard M DeVos

Sometimes the wrong choices bring us to the right places.
~Nathan Pyles

I am an optimist…I choose to be. There is a lot of darkness in our world, there is a lot of pain and you can choose to see that or you can choose to see the joy. If you try to respond positively to the world, you will spend your time better.
~Tom Hiddleston

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You always do what you want to do. This is true with every act. You may say that you had to do something, or that you were forced to, but actually, whatever you do, you do by choice. Only you have the power to choose for yourself.
~W Clement Stone

Attitude is a choice. Happiness is a choice. Optimism is a choice. Kindness is a choice. Respect is a choice. Whatever choice you make makes you. Choose wisely.
~Roy T Bennett

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@Writers Platform

Beautiful sentences pop into my head. Beautiful sentences that aren’t always absolutely accurate. Then, I have to choose between the beautiful sentence and being absolutely accurate. It can be a difficult choice.
~Christopher Hitchens

Poetry has the ability to create entire moments with just a few choice words. The spacing and line breaks create rhythm, a helpful musicality, a natural flow. The separate stanzas aid in perpetuating a kind of incremental reading, one small chunk at a time.
~Jason Reynolds

You marvel at the economy and this choice of words. How many ways can you describe the sky and the moon? After Sylvia Plath, what can you say?
~Toni Morrison

Perhaps, The Moon and the Yew Tree
~Ed Note

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For me, being a writer was never a choice. I was born one. All through my childhood I wrote short stories and stuffed them in drawers. I wrote on everything. I didn’t do my homework so I could write.
~Laura Hillenbrand

The style of an author should be the image of his mind, but the choice and command of language is the fruit of exercise.
~Edward Gibbon

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I write the story as it comes to me ‒ YA is my natural voice, not a conscious choice.
~Marie Lu

I made the choice long ago to write about real life. And life is both serious and funny.
~Paula Danziger

I found nothing really wrong with this autobiography except poor choice of subject.
~Clifton Fadiman

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Great deeds give choice of many tales. Choose a slight tale, enrich it large, and then let wise men listen.
~Pindar

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Much of the time I’m an introvert, by choice spending a lot of time on my own. I suppose liking my solitude is part of a writer’s sensibility.
~Robyn Davidson

Being solitary is being alone well: being alone luxuriously immersed in doings of your own choice, aware of the fullness of your own presence rather than of the absence of others. Because solitude is an achievement.
~Alice Koller

I have the choice of being constantly active and happy or introspectively passive and sad.
~Sylvia Plath

The moment of choice has come—to go forward or to go withdraw into solitude. The decision must be in complete accord with one’s innermost being.
~Yi Jing

Hopefully your choices can come from a deep sense of who you are.
~Fred Rogers

It is such a complex matter we live within, it is impossible to track logic and decision making really, so therefore each choice can actually only be seen as coincidence.
~Alva Noto

Philosophy is not best expressed in words; it is expressed in the choices one makes.
~Eleanor Roosevelt

We have free will, but our free will lies in our choice of thoughts.
~Emmet Fox

When you know your intention, you are in a position to choose the consequences that you will create for yourself. When you choose an intention that creates consequences for which you are willing to be responsible, that is a responsible choice.
~Gary Zukav

Albert Camus, a great humanist and existentialist voice, pointed out that to commit to a just cause with no hope of success is absurd. But then, he also noted that not committing to a just cause is equally absurd. But only one choice offers the possibility for dignity. And dignity matters. Dignity matters.
~David Simon

The point of cities is multiplicity of choice.
~Jane Jacobs

To me, the good thing about living in L.A. is diversity in lifestyle choices, color, and religion.
~Sandra Bullock

If I had to think where I could live if not Moscow, London would be my first choice and second would be New York.
~Roman Abramovich

For my wife and I, for so many years, a lot of our identity was based on being Hollywood haters. We were like, ‘We’re east-coast. We’re New Yorkers. This is just a place that we have to come to, but not by choice.’
~Kevin Bacon

The beautiful thing about New York is, you have to expose yourself to other people the minute you step outside the door. There is no choice. And I love that.
~Sarah Jessica Parker

Each person makes their own choice, but my spirit is meant to stay in Iran, especially with the work that I do, and with the emotional connection I have with the country ‒ with all its difficulties, this is why I stay.
~Asghar Farhadi

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Prewritten Prompt: choice

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People who are free to choose may choose wrongly. This is the age-old paradox. Sin is the other side of freedom’s coin. A world without sin would be a world without choice.
~Charles Handy

And so it is, that both the Devil and the angelic Spirit present us with objects of desire to awaken our power of choice.
~Rumi

It requires courage to make good choices, even when others around us choose differently. As we make righteous choices day by day in little things, the Lord will strengthen us and help us choose the right during more difficult times.
~W Craig Zwick

‘Right’ choices can be for the wrong reasons; one can ignore a potent higher reality.
~Alfred Henry

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It’s fun being in Islamic countries, to know there’s only one religion. There’s order. You wear a burqa. There’s no choice. People are happy with that.
~Prince

For so long as the Jew has even one ally, he will be convinced ‒ in his smallness of mind ‒ that his salvation came from that ally. It is only when he is alone ‒ against all of his own efforts and frantic attempts ‒ that he will, through no choice, be compelled to turn to G-d.
~Meir Kahane

God asks no man whether he will accept life. That is not the choice. You must take it. The only choice is how.
~Henry Ward Beecher

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You are at a choice-point in every moment of each circumstance, each activity, spoken word and thought.
~Dr Michael Beckwith

Nobody ever did, or ever will, escape the consequences of his choices.
~Alfred A Montapert

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In a way, forgiving is only for the brave. It is for those people who are willing to confront their pain, accept themselves as permanently changed, and make difficult choices. Forgivers are not content to be stuck in a quagmire. They reject the possibility that the rest of their lives will be determined by the unjust and injurious acts of another person.
~Gordon Dalbey

You’ve got to be willing to forgive and say, ‘God, get something good out of something bad.’ And if you’ll make that choice… God will do it.
~Don Young

Faith is an act of rational choice, which determines us to act as if certain things were true, and in the confident expectation that they will prove to be true.
~William Inge

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The meaning of life. The wasted years of life. The poor choices of life. God answers the mess of life with one word: ‘grace.’
~Max Lucado

The Lord sees weaknesses differently than He does rebellion.
~Richard G Scott

When granted many years of life, growing old in age is natural, but growing old with grace is a choice. Growing older with grace is possible for all who will set their hearts and minds on the Giver of grace…
~Billy Graham

The Christian faith can never be separated from the soil of sacred events, from the choice made by God, who wanted to speak to us, to become man, to die and rise again, in a particular place and at a particular time.
~Pope Benedict XVI

God isn’t compatible with machinery and scientific medicine and universal happiness. You must make your choice. Our civilization has chosen machinery and medicine and happiness.
~Aldous Huxley

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Salvation is from our side a choice, from the divine side it is a seizing upon, an apprehending, a conquest by the Most High God. Our ‘accepting’ and ‘willing’ are reactions rather than actions. The right of determination must always remain with God.
~Aiden Wilson Tozer

Freedom is a choice. The grace of God abounds, and man is nonetheless free.
~Michael J Knowles

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The priests say that God created our souls, and that just puts us under the control of another puppeteer. If God created our will, then he’s responsible for every choice we make.
~Orson Scott Card

According to Islamic principles, when a man is accused of heresy, he is given the choice between repentance and punishment.
~Naguib Mahfouz

If God created our will, then he is willing for every choice we make, permitting a more compassionate reading of Eden.
~author unknown

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When you have a sense of calling, whether it’s to be a musician, soloist, artist, in one of the technical fields, or a plumber, there is something deep and enriching when you realize it isn’t just a casual choice, it’s a divine calling.
~Charles R Swindoll

Choice is a divine teacher, for when we choose we learn that nothing is ever put in our path without a reason.
~Iyanla Vanzant

It is no use to grumble and complain;
It’s just as cheap and easy to rejoice;
When God sorts out the weather and sends rain ‒
Why, rain’s my choice.
~James Whitcomb Riley

God always gives his very best to those who leave the choice with him.
~James Hudson Taylor

At its most fundamental, information is a binary choice. In other words, a single bit of information is one yes-or-no choice.
~James Gleick

The only thing that might have annoyed some mathematicians was the presumption of assuming that maybe the axiom of choice could fail, and that we should look into contrary assumptions.
~Alonzo Church (math/logic/tec)

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My choice of learning pharmacy was driven by my interests, curiosity, and a desire to seek new medicines for patients.
~Tu Youyou

I was a lousy academic. I spent most of my time in the cafeteria. But I met fantastic people from all kinds of fields; law, medicine, history, and they eventually dispersed all over the world to do their fieldwork. I liked the way these people committed to the long term in a sincere, visionary way. Their projects weren’t about “next season.” They were ten-year commitments. They were lifestyle choices that had traditions of fieldwork built into them ‒ moving around, living on location, discipline, a real rigor for research.
~Aleksandra Mir

The human body and mind are tremendous forces that are continually amazing scientists and society. Therefore, we have no choice but to keep an open mind as to what the human being can achieve.
~Evelyn Glennie (Scottish percussionist)

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What we must understand is that the industries, processes, and inventions created by modern science can be used either to subjugate or liberate. The choice is up to us.
~Henry A Wallace

AI is a tool. The choice about how it gets deployed is ours.
~Oren Etzioni

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Unlimited choice is paralyzing. The Internet has made this form of paralysis due to option overload a standard feature of comfortable modern life.
~Susan Orlean

People of the future may suffer not from an absence of choice but from a paralysing surfeit of it. They may turn out to be victims of that peculiarly super-industrial dilemma: overchoice.
~Alvin Toffler

The problem, simply put, is that we cannot choose everything simultaneously. So we live in danger of becoming paralyzed by indecision, terrified that every choice might be the wrong choice.
~Elizabeth Gilbert

Making a wrong choice early may limit making the right choice later.
~James E Faust

Too much freedom inhibits choice. Constructive narrowness clarifies choice.
~Darby Bannard

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Technology is an enabler; you have to be at the cutting edge of technology ‒ there is no choice.
~Uday Kotak

If I could come back as anything ‒ I’d be a bird, first, but definitely the command key is my second choice.
~Nikki Giovanni

I feel angry that I have been born into a society where, by no choice of my own, by no agreement, by no actual decision, I am inherently complicit in the destruction of the world. It is hard to do the right thing. You have to be militant. You have to be an activist. You have to be branded as green to do the right thing.
~Severn Cullis-Suzuki

Every act of irreverence for life, every act which neglects life, which is indifferent to and wastes life, is a step towards the love of death. This choice man must make at every minute. Never were the consequences of the wrong choice as total and as irreversible as they are today. Never was the warning of the Bible so urgent: ‘I have put before you life and death, blessing and curse. Choose life, that you and your children may live.’
~Erich Fromm

I know there is pain when sawmills close and people lose jobs, but we have to make a choice. We need water and we need these forests.
~Wangari Maathai

We have no choice: we must protect Arctic ice, enable it to continue to act as an essential temperature regulator for the planet, avoid the catastrophic rise in sea levels that would result from the ice melt, and stop the disappearance of permafrost releasing irreversible quantities of greenhouse gases back into the atmosphere.
~Albert II, Prince of Monaco

People need to be made conscious of a very simple reality: we have no choice but to share this planet, this small blue sphere floating in the vast reaches of space, with all of our fellow ‘passengers.’
~Daisaku Ikeda

From now on it is only through a conscious choice and through a deliberate policy that humanity can survive.
~Pope John Paul II

Each generation has its own rendezvous with the land, for despite our fee titles and claims of ownership, we are all brief tenants on this planet. By choice, or by default, we will carve out a land legacy for our heirs.
~Stewart Udall

When I was a kid, I thought I was going to be an architect, because when I was 12 years old I had a guidance counselor that convinced me that that was the best career choice for me.
~Al Yankovic

Before high school ended, I started applying to college. It really wasn’t even a choice because of the brainwashing of my parents.
~Tatyana Ali

In school, all my teachers and my mum were super routing for me to study at Oxford. I picked music as a career choice, and this didn’t sit too well with them!
~Stormzy

The capacity to learn is a gift; The ability to learn is a skill; The
willingness to learn is a choice.
~Brian Herbert

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In a time of tight budgets, difficult choices have to be made. We must make sure our very limited resources are spent on priorities. I believe we should have no higher priority than investing in our children’s classrooms and in their future.
~Bob Riley

Common sense should tell us that reading is the ultimate weapon–destroying ignorance, poverty and despair before they can destroy us. A nation that doesn’t read much doesn’t know much. And a nation that doesn’t know much is more likely to make poor choices in the home, the marketplace, the jury box and the voting booth… The challenge, therefore, is to convince future generations of children that carrying a book is more rewarding than carrying guns.
~Jim Trelease

Always make the choice to learn. What Princeton taught me was whatever mess you are studying, pull a thread with great persistence ’til you have clarity of thought. Princeton taught me how to solve a problem. How to think ‒ that’s what we pull out of this place.
~Maria Ressa

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When I was mayor of New York, my views changed. I began as mayor of New York City thinking that I could reform the New York City school system. After two or three years, four years, I became an advocate of choice, of scholarships, and vouchers, and parental choice, because I thought that was the only way to really change the school system.
~Rudy Giuliani

Yes, I believe in school choice. Parents know far better than government bureaucrats what their children need from an education standpoint, and they should be permitted to make that choice.
~Matt Salmon

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Know to choose well. Most of life depends thereon. It needs good taste and correct judgment, for which neither intellect nor study suffices.
~Baltasar Gracian y Morales

Free choice is one of the highest of all the mental processes.
~Maria Montessori

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§ The Exercise:

pending review

screenwriter’s blood
ink for text
motion as action
stuntman sweats
unvarnished truth
director’s cut
people’s voice
not academy’s choice
no!
say ‘t ain’t so!
feel-good outdated
happy overrated
honor is hexed
fine, we try horror next

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in praise of Liberty, a ditty

my kingdom my kingdom
built on greed, motive mum
Liberty out, down-voting thumbs

Liberty of Ellis once safely ensconced
booted to curbs, roundly denounced
needed seeds for the future the target announced

changed direction, issued directives, bury files of abuse
one reigns deigning to rein in contradictory news
may rain on Her parade but not change history’s views

Liberty Liberty: cracked bell, carved statue
reduced to submission, diminished in stature
let Her ring out defiance, endure as rendered in statute

court jester court jester,
lest unspoken things fester
say you detest it lest you disgust Her

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Pity The Opinion, a ditty

Politics, for puerile advantage and power plays
business arm-twisting the old-fashioned way
Diplomacy, the fine art of trading unfeeling arms
for less waste and whole lives minus the harm

More opinions mean more options
ambition’s conniptions trimmed of corruption
Proverbial equivalence, plowshares into swords
Politician and Diplomat, two different words

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numbers

real and imaginary
positive and negative
age, multiplication tables
PINs and phones
enabled drones, real clones

ones and zeroes for yes and no
binary choice, best of two
not the one got zeroed out
undecipherable her zodiac charts
unpredictable, the art of hearts

whole integer gathering decimals
designation: personality
denomination: human being
determination: @time of death
destination: don’t hold your breath

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5s ‘n 7s

harsh new fear in the forest
deplore what, not the clearest
new bid’ness owners in town
prepared to burn it all down
champion chimp, chump and scamp
resident tramp in the house
choice of voice, grouse or a mouse

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confusion turned convulsion
turned chaos, deadly riots
town marshal going martial
rule of law turning partial
golden rule judged as hurtful
measures pleasuring cæsar
bold seizures, playbook: control

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take me to some vasty space
vacant between-the-ears place
somewhere one can meditate
void the race, escape debate
treasured choice where peace awaits

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passing thought for leading track
chaste melody, what it lacks
choice harmony, paint it black
that brooding mood, them’s the blues
punch it up, the money hack

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posit: truce from war
a time to breathe, a reprieve
barter: chance for choice
brand new brand: diaspora
mount for a temple attack

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lack-love handicap
cringe-worthy cripple
moist social outcast
ought to be horse-whipped
neglected to vote
there in my mirror
offender of note

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whether stay or go
is it yes, or no
are we us, or what
pick up the pieces
my choice lives with that

~

some pictures of you
posing for pictures
choice: see or be seen
scoping for next shot
eyes bright, missed the plot

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underworld thug
blessed the lawless, hugs ‘n shrugs
makes for good story
mugshot revelatory
added spice to past glory

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bombast’s feral try
tried villain, not at all shy
good choice for bad guy

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now, at this moment
given a choice to live on
cashews and swiss cheese

Dear Reader,
This edition’s Exercise was taken up with politics in a way that is unseemly for a mild curator of quotes. As a dedicated member of the audience who must surrender up fickle choice for a wider understanding, this Disclaimer:

None of the above exercises were intended to reflect or depict any person living, past or present. Wordplay offered itself up in too many delicious ways to resist. No aspersions were intended, and future efforts at restraint will be more stringently applied.

The claim of this Disclaimer is validated by the distinction that exists between the vapid wanderings of a poetaster, and the encompassing wonders of a poet. No harm, no foul.
~Ed Note

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The Olio and Salmagundi of Quotes

Behaviors are a choice. Feelings are sometimes out of our control. Behavior has to do with choices.
~Randall Terry

The choices we make in the heat of emotion would be better if left for some other day.
~Dr Shad Helmstetter

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Some people are cowards… I think by and large a third of people are villains, a third are cowards, and a third are heroes. Now, a villain and a coward can choose to be a hero, but they’ve got to make that choice.
~Tom Hanks

We have to believe in free will. We’ve got no choice.
~Isaac Bashevis Singer

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We imagine things ‒ that we wouldn’t be able to survive, but in fact, we do survive. We have no choice, so we do it.
~Joan Didion

That’s what is incredible about human beings, is the choice to keep going.
~Jack Antonoff

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Heroism is a matter of choice.
~Richard Cohen

Choices are the hinges of destiny.
~Pythagoras

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Whenever you’re faced with an explanation of what’s going on in Washington, the choice between incompetence and conspiracy, always choose incompetence.
~Charles Krauthammer

Politics is a field where the choice lies constantly between two blunders.
~John Morley

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Once you lose yourself, you have two choices: find the person you used to be, or lose that person completely.
~H G Wells

Even in my really bad, drugged-out days, I didn’t go away. I still toured, still did interviews. I never gave up the fight. That’s why I’m who I am today, because I didn’t leave. And I think I made the right choice.
~Stevie Nicks

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Always go with the choice that scares you the most, because that’s the one that is going to require the most from you.
~Caroline Myss

This is a good plan for life in general. If you have two choices, choose the harder.
~Paul Graham

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You have two choices: You can come down from the mountain and spend the rest of your days thinking it was so beautiful there, or you can create a vision, look upward, see the next mountain, and start the climb all over again.
~Oprah Winfrey

There are ultimately two choices in life: to fight it or to embrace it. If you fight it you will lose ‒ if you embrace it you become one with it and you’ll be lived.
~Rasheed Ogunlaru

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We have no choice, we must all die. How we live, however, is entirely of our choosing.
~Simon Sinek

Use wisely your power of choice.
~Og Mandino

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Liberty is the right to choose. Freedom is the result of the right choice.
~Jules Renard

Freedom is the right to choose: the right to create for oneself the alternatives of choice.
~Archibald MacLeish

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You are your choices.
~Seneca

The choice may have been mistaken, the choosing was not. You have to move on.
~Stephen Sondheim

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Choices determine character.
~Brandon Mull

It is our choices that show what we truly are far more than our abilities.
~J K Rowling

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Your choices today determine your tomorrow and you make your life through the power of choice.
~Kathy Smith

Accept that you are where you are and what you are because of your own choices and decisions.
~Brian Tracy

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Once you make a choice, you have no choice.
~Anna Chin-Williams

Morality may consist solely in the courage of making a choice.
~Leon Blum

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Boredom is a choice. Like tardiness. Or interrupting.
~Mike Rowe

To be offended is a choice we make; it is not a condition inflicted or imposed upon us by someone or something else.
~David A Bednar

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I’d rather believe in my own choice and see it all go wrong than do something I’m not fully convinced of and later feel guilty about it.
~Alicia Keys

I don’t have regret about things I’ve done that are successful or not successful or what people perceive or don’t know or whatever. I just know for me it had to be the right choice at the time. Sometimes that choice is just about getting a job.
~Mark Harmon

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Given the choice between accomplishing something and just lying around, I’d rather lie around. No contest.
~Eric Clapton

If it’s a choice between doing a film and not doing a film, I’d rather not. But then, you remember that you’re supposed to be earning a living and that it’s your career.
~Hugh Grant

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Every mind must make its choice between truth and repose. It cannot have both.
~Ralph Waldo Emerson

You do not need to leave your room. Remain sitting at your table and listen. Do not even listen, simply wait, be quiet still and solitary. The world will freely offer itself to you to be unmasked, it has no choice, it will roll in ecstasy at your feet.
~Franz Kafka

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A lot of people think that addiction is a choice. A lot of people think it’s a matter of will. That has not been my experience. I don’t find it to have anything to do with strength.
~Matthew Perry (@ge 54)

Drugs? Every one has a choice and I choose not to do drugs.
~Leonardo DiCaprio

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A life lived of choice is a life of conscious action. A life lived of chance is a life of unconscious creation.
~Neale Donald Walsch

An exercise: exchange places for the words “action” and “creation” in the above quote to see if it adds another layer of meaning for you
~Ed Note

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The Fourth Industrial Revolution can compromise humanity’s traditional sources of meaning ‒ work, community, family, and identity ‒ or it can lift humanity into a new collective and moral consciousness based on a sense of shared destiny. The choice is ours.
~Klaus Schwab

I have a very poor record at multiple choice questions.
~John Irving

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Man has free choice to the extent that he is rational.
~St Thomas Aquinas

If I had a choice about going to a meeting at a studio or changing a nappy, I’d choose the nappy.
~Tim Burton

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Where choice begins, Paradise ends, innocence ends, for what is Paradise but the absence of any need to choose this action?
~Arthur Miller

As human beings, we are endowed with freedom of choice, and we cannot shuffle off our responsibility upon the shoulders of God or nature. We must shoulder it ourselves. It is our responsibility.
~Arnold J Toynbee

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The right choice is hardly ever the easy choice.
~Rick Riordan

The obvious choice isn’t always the best choice, but sometimes, by golly, it is. I don’t stop looking as soon I find an obvious answer, but if I go on looking, and the obvious-seeming answer still seems obvious, I don’t feel guilty about keeping it.
~Eliezer Yudkowsky

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We cannot lead a choiceless life. Every day, every moment, every second, there is a choice. If it were not so, we would not be individuals.
~Ernest Holmes

The choices we make about the lives we live determine the kinds of legacies we leave.
~Tavis Smiley

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Live today. Let go of your attachment to your past as an excuse for your life conditions today. You are the product of the choices you are making right now.
~Wayne Dyer

Life is a sum of all your choices. So, what are you doing today?
~Albert Camus

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The Olio’s Quote Harvest
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